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hello everyone. I hope i could get serious advice from you guys. Ive been struggling about this problem i have with my love life. Do you think that this Relationship is really God's will for me when in fact apart of me wants to leave and a part of me wants to stay in the relationship. I do love my boyfriend though but if i were to look forward my future with him.... i might be stroke to death of not having enough freedom. I cant do things on my own. My friends and my families dont like him coz of his attitude and the fact that he is not yet annulled and do have a daughter with his wife.Then at his age of 35,he is not yet stable. I just dont know why i cant leave him.... is it just for companionship or what since im all alone coz my parents have their own family. I do have my sisters and brother but they are all married. Am i going to stay or not?Will i ever be able to overcome from the pain if ill leave him while im still inlove? i just dont know

Answer 1

You need to end this...

Answer 2

Hi,
You did not said how old are you here? I don't know where because of your lionesses or you have not much friends to keep you company? In there first place how you get to know him and you know that he is a married man with family then why do you put your feet in to it? how many year have you been together?
if you real love him then you should leave him before the wife know it, go and get to know more people or mix with some friends that you trust. He wouldn't be able to give you happiest, if you are looking for married. Would you want to break a family like what you are having with your parents? Time were take up everything as it go. So do not have to worry it sooner or later you need to leave. If you still have worry then mail me : [e-mail]
We can talk privately and I give you more advice.

Answer 3

I think you know in your heart that you really know he is not for you. Usually family and friends can see a person for their true color because they are on the outside looking in. If someone really loves and trusts you, they will not clip your wings. In other words.....he would not prevent you from fulfilling your dreams and goals in life. If he is choking you to death now and not allowing you freedom now...it will only get worse.

It is apparent why he is divorced. Hopefully, you have enough inner strength not to allow yourself to get stuck in his web.

I'm sure if you ask a family member if you can stay with them for awhile till you figure out what you want to do with your life, I'm sure they would have no problem with that. This way you can get yourself on the outside of the relationship for awhile and take a look in.

Yes, you will miss him.....but after about a week...you'll see you will be just fine. Remember, when life knocks you to your knees....it's time to pray.

Good Luck and God Bless.

Answer 4

i think you probably should leave him...if he really wants to be with you, why in the name of god he didnt annulled his previous/current marriage??apart from that, the fact that he's 35 and not yet stable really doesnt sound right...
if u leave him,u will feel hurt no doubt about it but you knew what kind of future awaits if you be with him....

Answer 5

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Answer 6

listen to ur heart & take the decision