there is a girl in my class and i likes her, but i don't know how to tell her so can anyone help.
2006-10-17 18:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by hpz ftw 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go and talk to her. If she likes you, congratulations!
If she doesn't like you, don't despair. Breath slowly and learn
to handle your feelings. It is not the end of the world. Learn this very well. It is the most important lesson. Don't think that you are inadequate, ugly or stupid. She simply doesn't like you. No big deal. Just move on. Look for another girl, and so on.
THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. LEARN TO HANDLE THESE SITUATIONS. Some people get frustated or paralyzed. Really, it's no big deal. The sea is plenty of fish. She is just one girl. There are millions. This is a number game. The more you try,
the more you get.
About the specifics techniques for talking to her... it doesn't matter really. You will learn with practice. Sometimes you can
say poetic things, and she will look with cold eyes. Or you can
say ridicule things, and she will laugh with you. Hard to know.
You cannot control her reactions. YOU MUST FOCUS IN CONTROL YOUR REACTIONS. Be confident. You are important. You are a man. Men have been doing this since the dawn of time.
Just be yourself, and talk to her. Look for shared interests.
Express that you like her. If she doesn't like you, it doesn't
matter really. Try again with another girl.
Good luck, and welcome !
2006-10-17 20:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by Franco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her straight away, you might shock her. Anyway, you should start off by chatting with her. Always try to have a conversation with her but don't do it in an strange manner. You have to be natural and be yourself. Ask for her number so that you can call sometimes to ask about studies or a question in a subject in class you aren't sure. After sometime, she will probably assume that you have liking for her. Observe how she respond towards you. If she doesn't seem to be avoiding you, you have chance. Now you can try to ask her out, etc.
2006-10-18 05:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for signs that she likes you. Does she playfully punch you, does she stare at you, is she constantly trying to talk to you, does she blush whenever she goes near you. But if none of that happens don't tell her just yet, you don't want to create any awkwardness. Become her friend first and then try asking her out.
2006-10-18 01:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are the the guy be bold and ask her and it will save a lot of time that u and her could be having fun.
2006-10-18 02:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nt tell her rght away first try to get friendly with her than when you get to know her than you can tell her how you feel about her.Good luck
2006-10-18 01:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by ebuncan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you can tell.
Even if she tells you, she could just be messing with you.
2006-10-18 01:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋