2006-10-17 17:48:44 · 14 answers · asked by karrie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I used to ask myself this question a lot. What you have to look at is what he does not what he says. When the guy says it too soon in the relationship he might be lying. If you have been going out with him for two months, that may not be love. Now if you have been going out with him for a long time then he might be telling the truth. It all depends how he makes you feel and what he does for you. Good Luck
2006-10-17 18:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never know!!! People throw around those words so much nowadays its so hard to tell when someone is telling the truth when they say the L word.
2006-10-18 00:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by bellarosa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once worked for a Chiropractor who said to look into the person's eyes and if the pupil grows bigger while he's/she's looking at you that means the person loves you.
Other than that keep in mind that actions speak louder than words.
2006-10-18 01:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by 247Riza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ..
If a girl told me she loved me .. I'd hear her right .. but I wouldn't questions whether it's true or not. You must KNOW th turth a lot of guys including myself, will do anything to get a girl in bed. So if you keep that in mind you'll not question if he's lying or not.
[ - WHAT if he is telling the TRUTH -]
Well sweety, I have this girl who like me, BUT I found out .. well she came out and told me she's barren. Ohhh. As soon as I heard that .. EVERY plan for marrying her went out the window, AND into the garbage.lol.
But let me see how smart you are .. Knowing she's barren, if I tell her I Love Her, but marry another girl .. Did I really tell her the truth?? .... No .... and why?? Because my actions, didn't backup what I said.
[- SOLUTION -]
Get this guy to do something to PROVE he loves you.
Now to PROVE, I love this girl who barren, the only SOLID PROOF, is if I bend on my knees and say sweety, I know you barren but I still want to marry you, and put a ring on her finger, and marry her. If I don't do this, "I Love You" is a lie.
[- Your Not SPECIAL -]
Not trying to hurt you sweety, but you see ... and this why I wish, a lot of guys did approach you and tell you "I Love You", instead of this 1 guy, so you could see your no one special, cuz 1 guy say he love you.
I'd go up to some girl and tell her "I Love You" and it wouldn't evben move them, cuz 50 something guys already told them the same thing.
Here's a reality for you, if I tell you I love you, you think you special??
Sweety I did the same thing to 50 other girls today. You know how fool you is to be home, wondering whether I meant it or not.
(Do me a favor, take your hand and smack yourself)lol.
[- GUYS like me TRICKY -]
We only say those things to play with ya'll minds sweety, and look it's working. Baby I wouldn't for one minute THINK he means it.
[- TEST him Out Though -]
Listen play with his mind, and enjoy it,
1. Go back to him, and tell him, I love you too. (Let's see what he does)
2. Tell him if he really love you, he needs to prove it, buy buying you some clothes, and a $399 ring you saw in the shop. (Let's see what he does.:D
3. Say he buys you those things, then ask him, "You've proved you love me, now what do you want me to do?" (Let's see what he says)
And through all this keep your eyes on ONE thing, is all this leading to get me in bed??
2006-10-18 02:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by hhgdgdfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words...
2006-10-18 00:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Teena R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i feel it through his actions. In the old days where courtship was rare in my culture, the man would do certain things or to show his love for her such as knocking in her parents house and bringing gifts such as food to show his love for her.
2006-10-18 01:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be true due to my bad experience I hate these three words now.
Now I don't believe in these three words any more.When some one says to me, I take it too lightly because these words have lost their importance from my life.
2006-10-18 00:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words
2006-10-18 01:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll also show it!With little things!Maybe one day he'll just call to check up on you.....or stop in to bring you something you don't need!His attitude will mature quite a bit......and if it scares you a little your not ready for it!
2006-10-18 01:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how he told you.If he said it while making eye contact then did his eyes jump right?When a person lies their eyes jump to the right.
2006-10-18 00:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Bellatrix/Jimmypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋