2006-10-17 17:38:07 · 21 answers · asked by Jessy L 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well first of all what exactly do you mean by "bad things"?? That could mean so many things to different people. What you feel are bad things may not be to someone else. Secondly, if you truly feel that you have been violated in any way, you have to do what is best for you. If any of those "things" were illegal or against your will, I would notify the police in a heartbeat and get the hell outta there. You are young with a lot of life left to live to just be with someone who insults you, disrespects you, and does not honor you like a man and husband should. I wish you the best and hope you find the strength to take care of YOU first.
2006-10-17 17:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well listen do you approve of the situation or not. if you are happy with it then there is nothing to change,but if you disapprove you should tell your hubby. and see what he answers. If he ignores you then there is a problem other wise ther is non. You 2 are married so you 2 take the dissision not just he. so you decide change or no change
2006-10-17 18:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by J.Bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can make you do anything you don't really want to do.If on the other hand he has intimidated you into this or you do it out of fear,, married or not, throw him out. He has no respect for you or your marriage and if he's using you to make himself look good to his friends then he's a loser.You married this man because you loved him, what kind of love is he showing you. If he truly loved and respected you he wouldn't want another man near you. But if he's putting you out there for his friends amusement then he's only stroking his own ego. Have more respect for yourself and throw him out. You'll find someone else who will give love and respect you in return. Get rid of him before it's to late.
2006-10-17 17:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back in time one year and realize you're a flippin idiot.seriously in 28 years you didnt realize he was a piece of ****?now go out and get a good attorney and take everything he has and everything he ever will have .oh one more thing dont tell people you were so easily manipulated,influenced or pressured.you'll keep getting put in the victim role
2006-10-17 17:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by chaosnks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,try to make ur husband to relise his mistake.in this world love can change any thing.u show ur husband true love and make him to surrender to ur love and then point out his wrong thing.don"t take a wrong decision like divorce. if u divorce ur husband and marry another man are u sure he don"t do the same? no know.
2006-10-17 18:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by kutti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable with the situation then get out of there. Give him an ultimatum, you or his mates. You are his wife not a sex slave or *****. Demand respect, if you don't get it from him then give it to yourself and walk out. You DO deserve better.
2006-10-17 18:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Curious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u quiet since so many days.take some legal action against him and put him behind the bars.take him from ur elders and friends. whom u trust.
2006-10-18 07:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by hennaasrani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE FILE A PETITION IN THE WOMEN COMMISSION OR FAMILY COURT AND NARRATE THE MATTER IN DETAIL TO THEM. THEY WILL TRY TO SOLVE THE MATTER AMICABLY BY CALLING BOTH THE PARTIES.IF IT DOES NOT HELP THEN YOU CAN PROCEED FURTHER TO GO FOR A JOB OR BECOMING FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT. ONCE YOU ARE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT.YOU CAN LIVE SEPRATELY WITHOUT BEING MENTALLY TORTURED.
2006-10-17 17:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by jayanta d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the ultimatum--next time he's leaving and you are headed to divorce court.
2006-10-17 23:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by JOHN M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Girl
2006-10-17 17:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by aries4272 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋