okay i ever since i slept with my best friend's man about a year ago. she has blamed me for everything in our friendship. I didn't do it on purpose. i apologized to her several times and she said it was okay. she has tried getting revenge on me. she does things to purposely anger me. she yells me at as if i'm her child. she makes smart-aleck and sarcastic remarks. oh my gosh i'm at the point that i really want to beat the crap out of her. she won't stop chastising me. any advice, tips, comments, etc.
2006-10-17 17:27:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
After what you did to your friend, YOU want to punch HER? Wow. Anyway, obviously she is still pissed off at you. I think you just need to have a heart to heart with her. You both need to be honest with each other about your feelings. there is a lot of anger, hurt and hard feelings on both sides right now, and it will take awhile to mend the situation. But be patient with her, she does seem to be dealing with this in an immature fashion but remember you betrayed her trust in the first place. You are both in the wrong here. Take some time to open up about your feelings, be patient with one another, and go from there. BTW, saying you 'didn't do it on purpose' is BS, and she knows this, and saying this to her will only make her more angry. It's a cop out. Take some responsibility for your actions.
2006-10-17 17:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by St. Louis Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...wtf.she is ur bestfriend,u shouldnt have ever done that.she may say its ok but still u should be smart enough to kno that its really not ok.she is gonna be mad at u and she wont forgive u for a long time.it has happened to me 2times so far.and when they did that to me,tryin to say sry and that it was an accident i quit bein their friend.u cant ever trust someone after that.im not tryin to be mean but u gotta understand where she's commin from.what would u do if she slept with ur man?u would prolly be one pis*ed off bit**.my advice is u need to find as many ways to prove to her ur sry.cause there is no way u can accidently sleep wit ur friends man.u were willing.he didnt force u or hold any kind of weapon to ur head.u need to understand how she feels.i kno u prolly dont wanna hear this but its the trouth.sry
2006-10-17 17:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by babygirl_12589 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Storm: You made a mistake, you got caught, you apologized and you have refrained from committing the same mistake again. She has the problem because you violated her trust and she despises you for it. Time to move on ... git out of der! If you are wise, you will make space between yourself and her. Get a new life and a new friend .. don't violate someones trust again - learn from this experience. How can you tolerate being around someone who hates you?
2006-10-17 17:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she can forgive you and I am not sure I could either if I was her. Move on it is time to separate for a while, maybe later on you two can be friends again but right now unless you want every one you meet to be told by her what a untrustworthy friend you are you will have to move on to a new group of friends. And try not to do anything like that again. She should have gotten rid of him too, he obviously can't be trusted either.
2006-10-17 17:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back away slowly. Sure, you did sleep with "her man". However, if neither you, her, nor him were wearing a ring at the time, it is not THAT horrible. However, it does not sound like she is willing to let that go and will more than likely hold that over your head. Keep your distance if you don't want to keep hearing the same stuff. It isn't going to change no matter how much you apologized. She is not worth the effort to beat, because beating her would only prove her more right. Stay away and let go of your anger. Let her fume on until she figures out that you don't care anymore.
2006-10-17 17:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Just another 2D character online 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, can you really, honestly, sleep with someone without doing it purposely? No.
And second of all, she's mad because her boyfriend cheated, and then cheated with her best friend. That's a double whammy.
This sucks, try to view from her point of view and try to understand how angry she can be at you and her boyfriend at the time.
Talk to her, explain why you did it, what was running through your mind. Say you're sorry basically, but with good reason.
Good Luck!
2006-10-17 17:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by ineedanswers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you betrayed her and slept with her HUSBAND. This is NORMAL. I don't care how many times that she says it is ok, it is not okay and she cannot help how she is feeling. You need to avoid her and stay away from her if you want peace. Don't punch her, because she will probably have you arrested, and frankly, that might put a smile on her face.
2006-10-17 17:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, maybe it wasn't right for you to sleep with your best friends man, but if you apologized and she said it was okay, she shouldn't be doing that. my advice: if you want to keep the friendship going, apologize again, saying you didn't mean to, and you will never do it again, and you are so sorry and you don't want it to end like this and then give her some time. i know this kinda hurts your pride, but suck up for a while, i mean, you did sleep with her man.
more advice: (and i'm not trying to be mean) don't do it again.
good luck! :)
2006-10-17 17:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by yo yo grl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK... YOU crossed a line when YOU slept with your FRIENDS man. Big NO NO. So in my opinion you deserve what ever you get. Consider yourself lucky your friend hasn't yet punched you in the face.
2006-10-17 19:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by jenny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were so in the wrong and have balls being pissed at her!! She should have kicked you to the curb as a friend a looooong time ago!!! You didn't "sleep" with him on accident!!!You sure as hell did do it on purpose!!!!! Grow up and be honest with yourself and the people around you or you will have lots of friend problems.Not to mention you obviously have no sense of loyalty!!
2006-10-17 17:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by drokk 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋