This man i know suppose to be a preacher, keep on asking me to have sex with him for 100.00. Because he knows i don't have any money.
2006-10-17 17:17:08 · 27 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There's an old story about someone, perhaps Hemmingway???, that asked a woman to sleep with him for $1,000,000. She said YES! He then said, well how about $100? And she slapped him and said "What do you take me for?" He responded with "Well ma'm we've determined that, now we're just haggling over price."
You wouldn't want your daughter to do it.
Tape record the guy asking you to sleep with him and then sue his *** for more than $100.00.
2006-10-17 17:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by We2Angels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , absolutely not. That man is no minister of any god I would believe in. Come on you would not respect your self after that or you would have already done it. The best advise my mom ever gave to me was " I am going to love you forever, no matter what you do, but if you wake up in the morning and you don't like yourself there is nothing I can do about it. So be very careful what do make sure you can live with whatever you do." I have been about to make a mistake so many times and I would hear those words and decide not to do it. I am lucky she was a good mom and I love her.
2006-10-18 00:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it if this were a man of God he would not ask this of you think about it things are cahnging so fast you cant even buy a coke for a dollar anymore what could you possibly buy with 99 more that is worth your self respect and all that you have taught your children I know from experience its hard but keep your head up and you and your kids will be fine I am 25 have three kids and one on the way my three oldest dad is going to prison I have been broke homless and hungry but God always made a way
2006-10-18 00:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by candice d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not do this, it is called prostitution, and is illegal.
There is your dignity involved, you should never even think of lowering yourself to this level
I would suggest you contact the Bishop of your church and inform him in writing, that you are offended by the advances of this preacher who is rather than ministering to the poor, trying to use their plight to his debased needs.
I would also write to his wife if he has one and tell her how you are annoyed by his advances and offer of money and would appreciate it if she would intercede for you to get him to stop doing this.
I think if you do both these things it will perhaps make the church counsel him.
Please contact the welfare agencies in your state, with that many children I am sure you can qualify to receive, benefits for housing, food and even donations of clothes, until you can get back on your feet.
Last but not least...where is the children's father? Is he paying child support? if he is not there is FREE legal aid available in every state in the US, and just about every town, through the American Bar Association, They will file the necessary papers and get the dad to contribute to the children's support, and don't worry if he has no money, the state will make the payments and he will accumulate an increasing bill until he starts to pay, and best of all, you wont be broke anymore.
Please consider following my recommendations.
2006-10-18 00:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I WOULD NOT!!!
we can be poor in our living but we can NEVER be poor in our pride! tat is something i think $$ cannot buy!
n if there is once,there will be chances of him asking for 2nd time n 3rd n never ending deals like tat
even is only for once, what happen if this thing is being spread out one day or years later???
u have to take ur kids feeling into consideration too
morever,how long can $100 last u n ur kids? but the consequence might be the one tat last u longer than the $$
all the best to u,take care
2006-10-18 00:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i have been there and i went down that road. So you get 100 but what are you doing 100 is nothing these days you can do so much better with your life then be some ones ho. Are any of those 4 kids girls? What would you tell them as there mother. Think about it
2006-10-18 00:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by bree1547 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some preacher.
Sounds like Jimmy Swaggert!
You do that, and you are a prostitute.
He should be giving you $100 just from eh benevolent fund at the church because you are poor.
I'm sorry that no one ever told you about where babies come from until it was too late. Wonder who you thought was going to support those children when you were getting them?
2006-10-18 00:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not...ever sleep with any man even if he claims to be a man of God...If you are not a prostitute then forget it...You don't need to lower your standards and do that . Think about the message you are giving your children, no matter what age they are
2006-10-18 00:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgrandmaof3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should have more respect for your self than that to sell yourself short. By the way he shouldn't be a preacher anyway if he is doing that.
2006-10-18 00:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl2004ds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100.00????are you kidding me???if thats all youre worth your gonna be broke for a long time.go donate some blood or babysit anything.it costs my husband more than that to sleep with me:)
2006-10-18 00:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by chaosnks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋