I moved to my house 2 years ago from california, I was exepted into the "popular" group after a while, but half the time I felt like I was all alone and I hated that feeling. I mett a girl who was in the same problem as me she was best friends with the dream girl and I was best friends with the dream guy. Our friends fell inlove and hung out all the time, and me and this girl became friends, wich turned into close friends, wich turned into best friends.
We told our friends we wanted to make new "friends" and started our own group. After a while I started to like her but so did every other guy in school. So I held it back for a long time and when she found out she started to grow away and now she says it might be best if we dont hang out anymore. deleted me from myspace and cut me off completely I have that alone feeling again and I wish it would stop. I wish we could forget about this and move on. Thanks for reading my long story please leave a tip or somthing thank you.
2006-10-17 16:39:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Aaaaww, u must be hurt. I mean just becuz u find out something secret like that doesn't mean u have to throw a whole relationship away. My best friends both like me and i was cool wit it. It didn't bother me cuz they understood my opinion about the situation. Well, I'll give some advice take urself out the game. Most ppl do that and they learn to like the person. If u need more advice click my icon and Im me!!!! Goodluck, odios!
2006-10-17 16:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Starting Groups' of friends! ....do you have a test to pass in order to be allowed in?
Yeah gods!!!
I just get the feeling I'd stub my toes on the rocks in this 'shallow' water you paint here.
I would hazard a guess from the technological language you use, over 'friendships,' that you are an American!
She has every right to behave as the way she chooses, unpleasantly for you as it might be, just as you have. Each way isn't particularly fruitful though.
'Friendship' is about 'caring' for the other person to the point of sacrifices being made (as long as friend does not 'abuse' it / you) of ones self in some way.
If you have or are doing this, then that is a couple of points to you, even if it means the loss of that Friend.' It means you have played your part, and if Friend hasn't, then you likely will have learned something. Take what you have learned and go on your way.
Good Luck.
Sash.
2006-10-18 01:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's clear this girl doesn't value friendship the way you do, and that's her loss. You are not superficial the way she is, and from where I'm standing that's good! I'd say that you would be better off just forgetting about her and moving on, you'll find another best friend soon enough. Just be friendly to everyone.
2006-10-17 20:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't be so glum chum. If she did alot of guys from your school why do you want to be with her? sounds to me like your better off if she hurt you so much and what is she so mad about?I would'nt give her the satisfaction to know your so hurt, go on in front of her like you don't care and then she'll probably be courious and talk to you. If not she was'nt worth your friendship and she might of done something else to hurt you in the future. I know your hurting right now but i believe things happen for a reason. Good luck if you wanna tell me more email me.
2006-10-17 16:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by teena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look my friend she has the right to feel weired about it well I WOULD if I were her. so how to win her back once she see that you wiped away your sadness and move on and dated another one if you are smart enough you'd date a girl from her groub so she could see that in her own eyes its not impossible that she would go after you but one thing for sure if your friendship was strong friendship then once you go in her cycle friends she'll take you back as friend ofcourse so then if she want more than a friendship refuse her play hard to get guy believe me I'm a girl and it work on us too ...
2006-10-17 17:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dark angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hun. notwithstanding the be conscious suggested is in all probability why shes no longer conversing to u. no one likes to be spoke of in the back of their backs. i think the only undertaking u might desire to do is purely shop attempting. attempt till u get very almost demanding. tell her what u suggested approximately her being one in all those super person and wait. provide her it sluggish to take up each and every thing and if no reaction then attempt back. sturdy luck.
2016-10-02 10:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww im so sorry! i dont have any tips im so sorry! but i wanted to say that i hope everything works out for the best and i hope you'll be okay!!! us strangers you dont know on yahoo answers are always here for you lol!
2006-10-17 17:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah bless you it must be hard for you, but the easiest way to get your point across is by sending her a letter, that way you can express all you have to say and if she wants to read it she can and if she dosnt i know its hard but you will have to try and move on.
2006-10-17 22:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋