I'm only in 7th grade, but I'm positive. I new him since 1st grade and always had feelings for him, I always had that gut feeling that I kind of ignored. I finally realized thatwhen he left the country, I LOVE HIM.Serious. I always think about him & daydream, always distracted, everyday the first thing I THINK about is him. I have no contacting towards him, please I don't know what to do I'm seriously crying because I have no idea what to do, I miss him so much. I really can't explain the feeling, but I would do ANYTHING for him, love him no matter what. Seriously. I find his imperfections PERFECT. Like that noise he kind of makes, not a weird one, but theres something wrong with I think his heart, and he makes this noise like every 10 seconds when hes like watching TV or something [he cant help it, its just when hes not doing something like talking or something like that.] What do I do, I'm seriously crying right now, please, a little help here!
Thanks in advance,
♥ ;; s a r a h
2006-10-17 16:15:33 · 6 answers · asked by ○◘•DaNdAnA•◘○ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sorry, he didnt LEAVE the country, he went all the way ACROSS the country.
2006-10-17 16:16:02 · update #1
PLEASE dont tell me I'm too young too love, no one is. ITs just a number, if you dont beleive that please dont answer. I'll report you if youre being an idiot or saying "youre so stupid blah blah blah" this is a very delicate situation and I have enough to deal with already so please be sensitive about this.
2006-10-17 16:24:16 · update #2
If its meant to be your paths will cross again. In the mean time just enjoy your teenage yrs. Hopefully you will meet again when your ready for marriage. Good Luck. First love is always the best and hardest.
2006-10-17 16:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sarah..your friend isstill your friend and that's pretty special..no one can take that from you and it's ok to be sad and hurt because you love him. Truth is that loving someone is okay and so you can have feelings for him..
He may be across the country or out of the country! Regardless, your feelings won't change right now..so be sad and write him, e-mail him or call him and just stay in touch. If he's really your best friend then he'll still be your friend even if he doesn't have the same feelings you have for him. You can still have talks and memories that no one will take away. You have a bright future to share with lots of people and I'm sure this guy is in your future too-maybe just in a different way. I hope you feel better tomorrow.
2006-10-17 23:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Heather W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't insult you by saying you are not in love with this boy, because you are. This is a first love, and it will be with you your entire life. You have discovered your capacity to love, and that is a good thing, but what you feel is only one side of what love can be. Unfortunately the truth about our first love is that it very seldom is The Love of our lives. The way you feel about this boy is never going to change, but you and he will. You will continue to grow and mature, and eventually you will find that Love of your life. What you now know is how the beginnings of that Love will feel.
You are going to get past this, I assure you. Each day will get a little easier, and eventually things will move on again. In the meantime, you need to find other things to do besides concentrate on your misery. There is nothing in this situation you can change, as you have admitted yourself. When you can't change a situation, you have to find the means to live with it. This boy and your love are going to become very pleasant memories for your entire life. Nobody will be able to take that away from you. You owe it to yourself to set it aside for memory, and then get into the business of growing up the rest of the way. You have a long life ahead of you yet, and somewhere out there is your own special love. You need to grow into the person you are meant to be, so you will be ready when you finally meet your true love of life. In the meantime, cry if it helps for a while. Then dry your tears and get on with life. Remember how wonderful this love feels, because that is just part of lies ahead for you.
2006-10-18 04:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by The mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I wish to god I had a good enough response for you. But I don't know what to do. Just know that no matter how old you are, it's never impossible to love. Does anyone you know have his phone number or e-mail or screenname? Ask some of your friends, especially ones who were also friends with him.
As long as you always love him and don't forget, he'll always be with you.
I apologize in advance for anyone who thinks that they're smarter than you and thinks that you can't love because of such a silly thing as age. You obviously proved them wrong, and they just can't accept that.
2006-10-17 23:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre only in 7th grade, you cant know if you really do love him. you have known him since first grade, so maybe this is just the first guy youve knwon for a long time and you think this is what love is. i think you should just keep in touch with him and if your feelings dont change for a couple more years then maybe you should be with him. but give it some time
2006-10-17 23:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Youre young sweetie
2006-10-17 23:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by bdjones_78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋