its just so hard, i think i've been betrayed by EVERYONE i have ever come in contact with, and everyone says things to me like they got something on me, should i say **** the law and start swinging away, or save my money for things i really want to spend it on, like someone i can trust?
2006-10-17 16:14:40 · 23 answers · asked by And i heard as it were a thunder 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i cant write anything anywere, everywhere i right things i got people looking, they even try to change my thoughts! Sounds crazy i know, but maybe, aw never mind.
2006-10-17 16:23:05 · update #1
CONFIDENCE IN THE GOODNESS OF ANOTHER IS GOOD PROOF OF ONES OWN GOODNESS -M.deMONTAGUE
2006-10-17 18:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by HADITDUN 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You could be misinterpreting people. Usually, people don't 'betray' other people for no reason at all. Try to give people the benefit of the doubt until you actually have proof that they did something on purpose to hurt you or advance at your expense.
Also, you could be depressed or paranoid. I'm not trying to put you down, those are valid illnesses that a LOT of people suffer from. They are neurochemical imbalances, and not in any way a weakness in character. Feeling like you're betrayed a lot is a symptom of both of those disorders.
I would suggest talking to a counselor or therapist. I obviously don't know the circumstances of your life; maybe you HAVE been betrayed by everyone. Talk it over with a professional and see what he/she thinks you should do.
2006-10-17 16:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by Geoffrey B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only feels like EVERYONE you know has betrayed you. My experience is that only MOST of the people you know have done, or will do that. Can't just go out swingin' every time someone pisses you off though. But if a lot of people keep saying "they got something on you", I'd wonder what they were talking about, and probably call them to the carpet about what they were running their mouths about before coming out swinging.
2006-10-17 16:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by detecting_it 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Paranoid Personality Disorder
2006-10-17 17:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was suggest going to paranoids anonymous. If you don't trust that idea, I would suggest locking yourself up in your house and not doing a thing, except maybe getting on the computer to check on Yahoo! Answers to see the wonderful answer that I have given you.
Thanks for the two points, and psst.....you can trust me.....no one is listening.
2006-10-17 16:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by seatony 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have some deep soul searching to do. It's hard to trust people these days, it seems most people have a hidden agenda. Chose your friends more carefully and don't get so involved with them so quickly. Take time to get to kow them, so you aren't used. You will once again learn to trust, but take your time so you don't get hurt.
2006-10-17 17:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes the Lord Jesus Christ is the best friend you could ever have. He'll never betray you, lie on you, hurt you, or boss you. It's totally up to you. He'll tell you the right way and even if you go the wrong way he'll just encourage you to turn around.
Go outside by yourself and just talk to him. Sometimes he's been known to put the right person in your path.
The human race will gossip, back bite, and lie on you. So trust no man in his nature but trust the spirit of a man, once you know it.
Slow down when it comes to calling people your friend. People will hurt you without a thought.
2006-10-17 16:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by mapleavenue456 3 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Dude, you are in dire need of therapy. Take note: The world is not against you. May be your choices have not been the best?
Either way, go see a psychologist to help work out some of your issues... no joke.
The world IS full of great people, trustworthy people... you just have to find them.
2006-10-17 16:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
every human being cannont lead lonelylife one day or some other day he has to trust some one ,so it depends on pereson to person wether to trust or not so beware of everthing before trusting any body
2006-10-17 18:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by gotimukkula v 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that....trust your gut feelings because there are some out there that cannot be trusted and don't let people blackmail you into giving them money...ditch the ******* in your life and move on.....
2006-10-17 16:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by pritty_princess_c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and follow the rules and do what's right for a change. Exercise self-control. Concentrate on your school work.
2006-10-17 16:27:32 · answer #11 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋