She knows I like her but she doesn't want to go out with me. But I can't get over her because I talk to her every night.
2006-10-17 16:14:10 · 16 answers · asked by Andrew W 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Ok... im going to see her tomorrow... any advice on what i should say to her?
2006-10-20 19:30:22 · update #1
You only have a couple of choices.
1) Hold on and hope that she changes her mind or is playing hard to get. Tricky. What if she really is not interested and never realizes how great you would be together? How long do you wait? And don't wait too long or you will lose her as a friend if she gets mad because you can't take, "NO" for an answer.
2) Forget about her and wait until you find someone else.
This is real life. The one you are attracted to might not reciprocate. Everyone goes through this.
Good luck.
2006-10-17 16:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you put yourself through that pain? If you love her and talk to her every night your keeping yourself in pain. Slow down the conversations and keep yourself busy with other activities so you don't think about her so much. Then maybe you will meet someone else.
2006-10-18 00:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u should DEFINITELY NOT push her. girls don't like tht. also, if ur really into her, just b patient and try to swoo her. flirt and stuff. if she doesnt take on, then u should talk to her about it. if u dont want to do that bcuz u feel it would b 2 embarrising, ask around and see if she has a crush. if she does that'd b the reason she's not diggin u just yet. but if ur REALLY charming and persuasive, im sure ull eventually achive ur goal.
-annalise
2006-10-18 00:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by annalise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really doesn't like you, make her!
jealousy is the best way.
find a beautiful girl and keep talking about how beautiful you think she is, and how great of a boyfriend you would be to her.. and all that kind of stuff.
you best Friend will realize that she is really missing out on a Great guy. and not to mention get jealous because you used to like her, and now you like someone else.
2006-10-17 23:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by julia k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her that you care. Ask her to go to a baseball game and actually take her for a dinner at a fancy club. Chicks love that. Act romantic yet not desperate
2006-10-18 00:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. you could take a BIG risk and tell her how you feel and then, just be sweet and understanding and give her space (if she doesn't feel the same) She may come around someday and realize that you're a really nice guy who really cares about her.
2006-10-17 23:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by Dianne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend if you really love her then what are you waiting for just reveal it whatever is in your heart. This is the only solution for your question. B'coz by this way you could know that whether she loves you or not.
2006-10-17 23:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mannu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't friendship the best basis for a relationship?? I consider my fiancée to be MY best friend
2006-10-18 07:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♫kanis.lupus♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be happy being friends give it time if your a great friend maybe sparks will fly, and who knows you may get lucky and she finds just how special of a person you are good luck!!
2006-10-17 23:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by Connie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her it will split you two apart.Then it will beome akward. pretend your hand is her.you already said she does not want to go out with you, so you need to respect that too. sorry love sucks like that.
2006-10-17 23:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋