My best friend and A couple of us decided to go to six flags.. So she drove us down and then she was supposed to take my friend home.. after six flags i went to my older sisters house out of town. It was late at night. So my best friend agreed to take everyone else home.. So she arrives back to the town where i live.. It is 1 in the morning.. She happens to refuse to take my friend home and dumped him off in a dangerous area in my hometown. And left him there, so he had to go to his friends house and spend the night not able to contact his family... She just refused to drive him home, and it would have only taken her to an extra 15 minutes to drive to the next town and dropp him off at his house.. but no she decides to dump him off at a dangerous area in town..
------What do you think about this? What would you do if your best friend did this to your friend...I want your honest opinion.. Thank u very much, it would help.. It happened 2 nights ago and i am very upset,that it happened
2006-10-17 16:02:53 · 14 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have talked to my friend.. and told her how i felt, and she is still being arrogant and rude to me and family!!
2006-10-17 16:06:04 · update #1
He is not my boyfriend... plus.. the town where she dropped him off in was where she lived.. He lived one town over, but she dumped him in a bad part of town, she has lived in that town forever.. So she was not scared..that was not the case..
2006-10-17 16:22:02 · update #2
That's not cool at all. I would be really ticked off that my best friend did that to one of my friends. Especially if she agreed to take EVERYONE home. And adding in that she not only didn't take him home but dropped him off in a bad part of town is just downright rude and mean.
2006-10-17 16:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would be inclined to cut her a little slack. She may have been exhausted after all that driving around, hither and yon, taking you and "everyone else" home; and she may have felt that it would be dangerous for her to drive any farther. She might have felt that she'd be a menace on the highway.
All's well that ends well. You seem to be determined to make sure she gets a hard lesson on how she should have behaved in the circumstances you described. Why not just let it pass? I doubt that she needs a lesson. Nobody got hurt.
Why don't you drive next time?
2006-10-17 16:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your girlfriend and find out why she left him. Could be she didn't feel comfortable (or was scared of) being alone with the man. As you said he was your friend not hers. Also one in the morning is not a good time for a woman to be driving alone in an area she is unfamiliar with. Now I will admit she should have said something to you if she had problems with him.
*P.S: NEVER leave your boyfriend alone with another woman, that's just not done. Not every man is as faithful as Daddy Big Dawg.
2006-10-17 16:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have let him ride with her being that she was refusing. I would not break friendship with her but never ask her to bring anyone home that I know. Then again she was probably afraid of something or did not want to ride too far out. Did she call you when she got home and explain what happen, if not then your boyfriend has some explaining to do cause the story is invalid.
2006-10-17 16:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what happend while she was driving back home with your friend .. may be she was too scared to take him to his house and drive back at very late night ..and she must had decided to dump him and go home ... by the way it was not nice thing to do .. you have right to be upset .. again ask her why did she do that ..
2006-10-17 16:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by Azul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she was pissed of that she had agreed to be a taxi driver--But tha'ts no excuse! She should have followed through on her word and then never agreed to drive again if she wasn't happy. Be thankful that your friend ended up ok and forgive her. But maybe remind her once in a while if there's something she wants YOU to do and you're not into it-Tell her to pack her bags..She's going on a guilt trip!
2006-10-17 16:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that was very rude but you should figure out what your friends reasons for leaving him at all the fact that its a dangerous section of town wasnt a wise idea and if its as dangerous as it seems make sure your friend knows you think that they could consider it safe.
you should make sure your friend knows your dissapointed and why if they dont know they might just think your acting the way your acting just for no reason
2006-10-17 16:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by tim l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to get a little more information out of them. Did they have a fight in the car or something that would make her change her mind about taking him all the way home?
2006-10-17 16:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't be upset , and try to communicate with your best friend and found out about what happen that night , maybe your other friend might be guilty of something if not your best friend is not your best friend.
2006-10-17 16:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Kettlygold k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my friend couldn't respect my friends then you need to drop that zero before she leaves you high and dry without a good explanation.
I 'm sure you wouldn't done that to her, but if she can do it to someone you care about then she will do it to you.
2006-10-17 16:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by mapleavenue456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋