she just confuses me cause she says that shes not ready for that type of realationship but then like 2 weeks later we are together again doing the same thing over then she tells me she feels guilty cause she has a boyfriend and she hasnt even kissed him yet but we are at it in 3 days then today she tells me she doesnt like it .What should i do shes a very confusing girl
2006-10-17 15:47:30 · 6 answers · asked by peoples choice 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It really all depends on what you're looking for and what you're comfortable with. Since she has a boyfriend, that means you're not the only person in her life. She seems to want her cake and eat it too but can't handle the emotionsl consequences of the situation and seems severely torn. To keep yourself from getting hurt, you may need to put the brakes on this relationship, at least until you're both certain this is what you want. If you, yourself decide to continue on regardless of her confusion, make sure you prepare yourself for what may happen next, whether it's good or bad.
2006-10-17 16:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by tori8003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might still be in a state of denial. She's clearly confused about her feelings for you and her boyfriend. And, sadly, she's taking it out on you in an unfair way. In the end, she really has to choose. It would be better if you distance yourself from her until she makes her choice. Coz she might end up leading you on for nothing. And that would really be hard for you. So, just tell her how you feel. Implore her to put herself in your shoes so that she'd have an idea of your feelings. G'luck!
2006-10-17 22:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's confused all right, and she's using you. Do yourself a favor and distance yourself from her. When things are hot and heavy with her b/f, you are going to be nothing to her. Don't settle for second place, you deserve to be the most important person in someones life.
2006-10-17 22:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to dump her boyfriend? Have her make a decision and stick with it. Tell her that she can't be (in the words of the all mighty Britney Spears), "Playin games with" your "heart". Seriously.
2006-10-17 22:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Serious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone else had it right, distance yourself from her, she is not your friend if she is using you and then cheating on her boyfriend!! If she does that to him, she will do that to you. I would find someone else and leave her alone. Sorry. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-18 06:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really? You done things together?
2006-10-17 22:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by Funnel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋