I try to look at things in both ways.I hate my parents for being selfish and never wanting to see things my way.How ignorant. Sometimes I feel like this whole world is against me. my siblings total ******* assholes like don't they have anything else better to do then try to make my life miserable? I leave them alone. They always try to make me look bad in my parents eyes. Why?! I don't even care what they do. I try not to aknowledge their existence. They get way better grades than me. I don't care I try to do the best I can but sometimes it's hard when you got alot **** going on. Why do they have to go and tell my parent'sbad things about me. Just so they can see me get punished and hated so they can feel more loved and superior?! It's not because they care. Like they will find any little stupid thing to tell my parents.Why do they like to see me upset?Do it feel good to see your younger sister cry and scream at you and wish she was dead and wish you were dead?r they satisfied? Help!!!
2006-10-17 15:44:55 · 7 answers · asked by BuryMe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
seems to me your siblings feel jealous of you, otherwise they wouldnt care what you do. they think you are better than them, so they are trying to bring you down to their level. maybe they are jealous of the fact that you are an individual and dont care what others think of you. maybe they would like to have that freedom, but are too scared. yes i have felt angry and lonely, but you are never truly alone, and you can make it thru anything if you are determined enough. dont let them win, dont let them get you down. you are a person worth knowing and you deserve to be on this earth just as much as they do. just concentrate on yourself and focus on making a good life for yourself that you can be proud of, and dont worry about their immature behavior. if your parents cant see the truth right now, trust me someday they will. till then just hang in there and strive to be the best you can be.
2006-10-17 15:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by melinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can wait till hell freezes over before things will come to you. You have to go to IT. Things like happiness don't come to people, they have to go out and earn it. You are wallowing in self - pity. This is not meant to be an insult... it is common with many borderlines I've met- I do it too sometimes. But you seem to know why you are isolated, you get clingy and it scares people off. Stop clinging. Strap on a little self confidence. Yes you do have a long hard road ahead; and you have to walk it, and you will eventually come to the things you want. They will NOT come to you. Good luck.
2016-05-21 22:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, youre better off angry inside than sad about it. Sad/lonely is non productive.
Sad/angry..can be productive...it's a 'survival mode in some cases. Dont think about where you stand in the family dynamics...think about how youre going to break free and find people around you that do make you feel good. Start with your friends. :)
2006-10-17 15:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look on the bight side. most successful, better, and stringer people have similar stories about being abused and feeling inferior. look for something that you're good at and work on it. if you parents or siblings still dont care about any of your achieve... why bother? there are other peopel aside from you family who's proud of you. i fo one i poud that you're brave enough to let out your negative feelings about your family members... it sort of make you feel bette right?
okay im babbling here... just take care of yourself and hang on!^_^
2006-10-17 15:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr Phil says "It ain't about you!" Just concentrate on the food and the pills and quit worrying about the fat neighbor who paints in the nude at night with the curtains open. Lets do it! I mean, haven't you read my books, seen my tapes, heard my books on tape? If you had you'd be making ol doc phil a rich man!
2006-10-20 17:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by BNLCy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BESIDES UR SIBIL.. THERE IS SOMETHING ELSE BOTHERING YOU AND YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN FIND OUT WHAT IT IS. TRY NEW THINGS MAYBE A SPORT OR ANOTHER TYPE OF HOBB... GET UR MIND OFF UR PROBLEMS FOR A WHILE.......AND TRY TO THINK THAT MAYBE ITS NOT THEM AND ITS YOU, TRY TO CHANGE THINGS A LITTLE. AND IF YOU DON'T GET GRADES AS GOOD AS THEM THEN JUST TRY UR BEST!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK
2006-10-17 15:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by D.L.G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jeez and i thought i had problems
2006-10-17 15:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋