My best friend lee who i asked was he gay before and he said no. Dammit i trusted him. I should have known by the way he looked at me and the silly games he would play. All the girls go crazy over him, and he has lots of girlfriends. He's Black mixed with Latino. I hit him pretty hard when i found out. He had someone tell me that he likes me and wants to be with me. Then he said lee is Bi. So i asked Lee and he said yes I am....SLAPPP!!!!! After all this time, and we ware getting ready to become roomates. He is still my best friend and he said he didn't tell me because he didn't want to break up the best friendship he ever had. I make jokes about it know.
2006-10-17 15:17:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Briana SHuT THE F>UCK UP your just man cause your a lesbo.
2006-10-17 15:25:05 · update #1
Mad that is
2006-10-17 15:25:28 · update #2
I did'nt slap him for being Bi. I slapped him for liying to me.
2006-10-17 15:46:01 · update #3
I salute you for remaining friends with him despite his revelations. A lot who go through that almost immediately cut off all the ties that bond them. So, I may say, the slapping was a bit mean but your kindness to remain friends with him was something to be respected.
2006-10-17 18:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by zira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that is why he didn't tell you before because he knew you would be violent towards him. If someone treated me the way you treated him I would never even look your way again, there is nothing wrong with being bi, though I am not bi, best friend or not I would have hit back, at least he thought enough of you to tell you who he really is. It is a big disappointment to know there are still people getting angry over their friends coming out to them, I thought this was a thing of the past. Now, it is his life let him live it, if he is popular with the girls he is also probably popular with the guys, so you should not have to worry about him coming onto you. Especially after you thought you had a right to slap him for finally coming out.
2006-10-17 23:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have slapped him. You should have told him that you are flattered that he likes you, but you don't think of him that way, and you could never have a relationship with a man. Just be honest. Don't get mad because he is bi. You were friends before you found out, him being bi doesn't change the person that he is. You should not have to get physical with him.
2006-10-17 15:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by raebelk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hitting anyone without consent simply means you were out of control. Your question asks if you were wrong to do that, and yes you were.
There are plenty of ways to be express hurt and anger over being lied to, physical violence isn't acceptable.
You owe your friend an apology, and he owes you one for lying.
I hope you two have moved on past this, I'd hate to think something so stupid and trivial would break up a good friendship.
2006-10-17 16:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you were wrong to do so -- and you are a gross and disgusting example of what a human being and a man can be. Honestly, you truly make me want to throw up when I read about that type of behavior in 2006 -- he didn't tell you because he was afraid of the exact type of reaction he got. You didn't deserve to know and he never should have told you.
There's nothing else I can say except I hope that it all comes around to you someday.
Reynolds
2006-10-17 15:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can understand you being mad, but you have to look at it from his point of view too. If he wanted to stay friends with you he would never have told you, in fear of the friendship being ruined. Yet when he DID tell you, you punched him...how do you think he feels? He thought he could trust you, but you betrayed him too. Coming out, even bisexually, is hard.
I would try talking to the two guys, and just say how you felt: pi-ssed, surprised, angry.
Violence is not the answer, but learn to tolerate those who are different.
Good luck, and peace out
2006-10-17 15:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by Voodoo Experience 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do exactly no longer do it in the back of her decrease back till you % to pull this crap on constantly. tell her to her face that your injury, and additionally you experience such as you have ignored out by using being so truthful. She dedicated to you, then nevertheless replaced into waiting to pass out and adventure different persons. Ask her what she thinks approximately making it even? it is a fix, thats a tricky subject to recover from, notably for a guy. If she replaced into down for it, then each time sooner or later you felt undesirable approximately her drowsing with yet another guy, you have that backup on your strategies, "properly I slept with yet another lady too" Make it approximately fairness, pass on, or ditch her and permit somebody else have your loyalty.
2016-10-19 22:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by lindgren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is all out now so just move on. You two can now have FUN, enjoy escapades and each other. Even though the dynamics of your relationship has changed the soul still remains the same. Twinks heal all wounds sweetie! Have fun exploring your new relationship BUT be safe.
2006-10-17 17:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always wrong to hit anyone, especially if the lie doesn't concern you. He's not hitting on you, even if he does like you, so why do you care who he sleeps with? Seriously, if he's your best friend, treat him accordingly. Just tell him, "I'm not gay, but if you are, it's cool as long as you don't start thinking of me like that..." and so on and so forth.
2006-10-18 04:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by Phedre D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you are pretty much a homophobic jerk. You slapped him for being himself...wow...you are a GREAT friend! This is probably why he didn't tell you a long time ago. If I was him I would wail on you for being such a dick.
2006-10-17 15:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by Serious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋