my bf and i got into an argument this morning. he refused to talk to me the entire day because of it and probably wont even call me when he gets home.... :( anyway the main reason we were fighting was because it seems his top priority are his friends and not me. we have been dating for 3 years now and he refuses to see me every single day. we see each other about 4-5 times a week. he sees his friends EVERY SINGLE day and any time i see him we are with his friends. we NEVER EVER get alone time. he sees his friends every day why cant he see me every day? i understand he wants time alone from me but the times he does see me why is it always with his friends? he says because "he loves being with his friends." and that they are just as important as i am to him..shouldn't i be just a little more important if i'm his girlfriend?!
2006-10-17 15:12:00 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NOTE--i already tried explaining to him how i felt and he just got mad and said if i mention anything about it again he will leave me for good
2006-10-17 15:14:01 · update #1
get a new guy.... if this goes on forever... you are gonna live it for the rest of your life?
2006-10-17 15:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by alfahomme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't draw the line between friends and family. And to some people family is everything. Perhaps he fits both of these categories.
Even still, not spending ANY time alone with you is more than a little extreme. If he is totally inflexible, it may be time to move on.
2006-10-17 22:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by Akfek_Branford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this kind of situation. that time I ask same question to my gay friend and he sad that this is because after so many years my bf cannot find anything interesting in me I become boring. so i change my wardrobe(style). I start to read Books (again), and went to museums. soon I find out that there is something except kisses that I can tell him. I become interesting (again). NOw he is my husband. Good luck !
2006-10-17 22:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by armn2ka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been in a deep realtionship yet but I think your bf is a little sensitive and selfish. I understand, homies before hoes, but spending time with his friends every single day, seems kinda odd don't ya think?
2006-10-17 22:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by KG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he said that, he doesnt sound too good, that he will leave you for good if you bring it up again... so, i think itd be best if you dumped him and moved on.. you should be more important than his friends, but you dont need to see him every day
2006-10-17 22:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both have different priorities right now,and considering how he communicates his frustration-leaving you for good-it's a red flag.what else will be resolved by ultimatum over the course of your relationship?please move on
2006-10-17 22:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not normal. after 3 years he should see you everyday and you should be more imporant. i hate to suggest it but could he be cheating? read his text messages when he's asleep!
2006-10-17 22:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Amae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT I DON'T UNDERSTAND IS WHY AFTER 3 YRS. WOULD YOU WANT TO SEE HIM EVERYDAY. ENJOY YOUR FREEDOM WHILE IT LASTS!
2006-10-17 22:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by i'm smart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋