What do i do with this person i am still in love with. He keep leading me on like he want to be with me but he still got this other chick he with. But what makes everything so hard is that we got a daughter together. How do i find out if he cares 4 me or he just playing. Asking him doesnt work so what else can i do. Should i just leave him alone until he strts coming back. I just dont know i am just so weak when it comes 2 him
2006-10-17 15:08:10 · 8 answers · asked by dorothy g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just stop having sex with him, if he still wants to see you it means he cares but if you keep putting out he will be getting what he wants and he will tell you what you want to hear to get it
2006-10-17 15:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Abs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh,are you listening to your own question?If you move your emotions out of the way for a minute you'll be able to see the answer.He has someone else and you know it,let him see his child,go find someone else to be with and live on for another day.This one is gone,accept it and move on unless your willing to be the other woman that has no problem being spit on,cause that is just what going to happen to you if you let this jerk back in your life.If that was the case why did you drop him in the first place?Damn stand up for yourself for a change.
2006-10-17 15:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, go for him. Men like to be in charge, completely, and maybe he's just wanting to see if you will be willing to let him do that or not. Or, maybe he is just playing you, but the only way to find out is to jump in and see, the only regrets in life are the risks you don't take!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 15:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly cared for you he would be with you no matter what.
You are now a mother and that is your number one job.....leave this guy alone and concentrate on you and your daughter.
Make sure you get a lawyer to get child support....your daughter deserves it.
2006-10-17 15:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you havent really gotten over him. All through these years you opted to keep on pining for something that is not there in the first place.
IF he was serious enough with you, he'd come back and stay, with or without your daughter.
Move on please.
2006-10-17 15:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to take the time to learn about you and spend less time on him.
2006-10-17 15:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Tink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you be given him any nookie until he gets his act together and gives you what you deserve.
2006-10-17 15:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should play hard to get..good luck
2006-10-17 15:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by askmike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋