I DO EVERYTHING THERE IS SEXUALLY FOR HIM WHICH MEANS EVERY NIGHT, SOMETIMES TWO OR THREE TIMES A DAY ON LAZY WEEKENDS. I KNOW HES HAPPY AND SATISFIED. DO YOU THINK HE WILL GET BORED? IS THIS HEALTHY OR NOT? GOING ON FOUR YEARS SO FAR....
2006-10-17 14:54:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you are doing what you have to, in order to keep him satisfied. Sex is part of being in a healthy relationship. If its been going strong for 4 years, I say keep doing what you are doing.
2006-10-17 15:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Monie D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was with one person for 10 years and I am only 25 yrs old so I know how you feel. It's been four years so he's not bored but sometimes being with someone for a long time can make things too comfortable and it does get boring. You may want to spice it up, experiment. There are all sorts of things you can try. Communication is the key, find out his fantasies and inner most desires. That may help and make him do the same for you. You are not a sex slave!! It goes both ways!
2006-10-17 22:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by kittykatmendez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're doing the same things every night, he might get bored... but that's not entirely your fault. He ought to bring home a new trick to show you every now and then. Remember, in sex there are two people involved. He needs to work just as hard to meet your needs. If you're sufficiently insecure to have to ask this question, you clearly have some emotional needs that he's not meeting.
2006-10-17 22:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But what do you do for you sexually? Are you okay with this? If you are then Great! have fun! If your are not then there is a problem. There is a BIG difference between having sex....and making love. If its all about him....and no consideration for you then no its not healthy. But if you are making love....then its about both of you and that is a great thing. Only you know how you feel about this and if your needs are being taken care of.
2006-10-17 22:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and jealous and I'm telling you that you are a saint. Your husband is the luckiest guy in the world if what you say is true.
Now, for reality. I love "it", truly, but too much of a good thing will diminish its value. I don't mean to be crude here, but yes he could get bored and I don't think this is healthy either. Perhaps he needs to seek professional help.
I gotta go now. I love my wife dearly, but man, am I going to think of you. You are special. Wow, how do you do it?
Take care,
TX Guy
2006-10-17 22:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a better woman than me....so to speak. I can understand acting like rabbits in the beginning of a relationship....been there....but after four years? I don't know whether to pray for you or to give you a medal for going above and beyond the call of duty. But hey, as long as your happy too, you go girl! You are happy, right?
2006-10-17 22:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes watching porn together is new or something differnt and maybe even talking about things that is freaky and new for the both of you.What do you want.more oral or do he or a third party to spice it up or outdoor sex maybe try sex groups that talk about it then act it out or dont have it so much so when you do its like woo
2006-10-17 22:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by First L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly acceptable to sacrifice for our significant others so long as the relationship is reciprocal. You sound like you resent it; If so, then that's the real danger because eventually you will start to hate this person.
2006-10-17 22:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't get bored long as you keep doing whatever he wants you to do, unless it's the same thing the same way over and over again. but long as ya'll keep trying and doing new things whats there to get bored about.
2006-10-17 23:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by us2_4playtime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are both up to it, i dont think there's a problem, you know him better than us so you would probably know if he's bored or not...
mind you, you also get satisfaction from it...there's no other feeling like giving pleasure to the one you love...
if it does get boring...talk and try to spice up things by being creative..
2006-10-17 22:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋