2006-10-17 14:48:21 · 7 answers · asked by amp 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I have had terrible news many times in my life. I thought the world was going to end or that my life was going to fall apart. But when I looked at it realistically, I saw that the negative was often a negative for a reason. Perhaps someone was trying to tell me something and I wasn't listening (when a boyfriend I loved broke up with me. I missed the clues.)
If it was never meant to be, then you are being done a favor. It may be hard at first, but eventually you are able to see and turn the bad news into something meaningful and positive.
2006-10-17 14:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens in small doses all the time. The one thing that changed my attitude towards fellow beings was a small, insignificant episode .
When I finushed my studies and attended a job interview ina top company , I was very eager to get the job. There was a Group Discussion and about 14 job seekers were also there competing.
The Group discusion , the question /answer session, .... everything I was trying to butt in , leaving no chance to the others. ( I didnot realise this then). After the Discussion was over , a tall guy came told me? Mister, I donot know who you are. You are not going to get this job for sure. But, you could have given opportunity for a few others to participate . Yiou never allowed anybody , a chance. What kind of a person are you/"
To this day , I remember this and it changed my attitude for ever.For getting something for yourself you cannot walk over everybody elase.
2006-10-17 22:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by YD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was told that I had an ectopic pregnancy. That the baby was caught in my fallopian tube and I would have to have surgery to remove the tube, my ovary, the pregnancy and I may not be able to have children.
I asked for a second opinion, waited 12 hours and prayed. The doctor who came on the next shift told me it was a mistake and now my daughter is 9, just went to bed and makes me happier than anything in the world.
2006-10-17 22:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by luvwbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any stupidity of mine, when pointed out by others , looks like a terrible news, and I take redoubled efforts to avoid it... especially awareness related ones.. and it did bring a positive change every time.
2006-10-17 21:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I gave the news to myself and it was a long process.
2006-10-17 21:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Neil S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-17 21:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sophist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was shown that my life was hell and now my life has changed to love.........lovy lovy lovy
2006-10-17 21:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋