oh yeah people , good news i did make my gf pregnant after 3 weeks working on . so we went to the doctor and he told us . so what should i say to my mom , oh and my mom is so sweet i am her angel my dad thinks what my mom thinks and my gf already told her family too , they were glad . oh and i am from europe not america so don't compare the life . what should i say to my mom ???
2006-10-17 14:45:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Congrats! This is an exciting time. I'm a mom it's wonderful. give your mom a little pair of booties in a box. she'll eventually get the hint. good luck to u.
2006-10-17 15:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by scooterbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most becoming pregnant for the first time when on birth control isn't easy. If you trust in your gf that she takes the pill regulary as she should then you should be in the clear exspecially since she took the pill 18hr post at least she took it. But it usually, usually takes a few months off the pill to become preg. for the first time. But it is kind of dependant on how long she been taking the pill a few months a few yrs. ect. But you won't know until a least a few days before her next period if she cycles regularly. But in the future check exp. date prior to making the mistake of doing something that may last a life time. Best of luck! By the way everyone woman diff and every preg. different don't base what her body can do based off her mother.
2016-05-21 22:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes no difference which part of the world you come from teenage pregnancies are never ok.
This is why you are worried about telling your mom, and i doubt that you were trying for only 3 weeks, because then the doctor would have difficulty in testing your gf. usually takes at least 1 and 1/2 month before test show positive so are you pulling our leg here. You sound way too young to become a parent in any case and who is supposed to support this child by the way. Your parents.
2006-10-17 14:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
How old are you 16. And you say you are finished with school. What did you do drop out. You need to be man enough to put a ring on your gf's finger. And I hope you are able to support the both of you and the baby. Just because you live here we don't want another illegitimate child to take care of. It sounds like you can't even support yourself. Do you still live with your mom?
I'm not going to wish you good luck like everyone else, because your a loser if you think that you are mature enough to raise another human
2006-10-17 22:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what makes you think that this couple are teens? Second of all and I am not judging you....doesn't matter where you are from in the bible it says you stay a virgin til married. Third sit your parents down and say mom and dad my gf and I are going to have a baby. Last but not least congrats!
2006-10-17 15:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jen n CraigB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this was my answer just this week when one asked how she'll tell his dad...by the way this was choosen as best answer....wink.
it will really be hard for any dad to find out that their li'l princess who once used to sit in their lap and who's very sweet girl will be a mum soon. esp in that way, out of wed luck. understand him. if he'll say bad words, i guess thats part of the consequences of the things you did right. but maybe one thing can make him ease the hurt is by saying there will be an additional person who will love him. and that you'll promise to be a good parent.
let me assure you, though our parents will really be mad crazy over an unexpected preagnancy, still no one's heart will never ever melt seeing their own grandchild.
if its hard for a dad its harder for a mom thats why i understand your point. as a mom too, i always tell my kids not to marry and be a priest and nun coz i dont want anyone getting them from me. well im not serious though. and they are only 4 and 1 yo, thats why they cant understand what i mean. but i know time will really come that my kids will have a family. so i think your mom is prepared in a way. just explain how happy you are. no mother will be selfish seeing her kids' happiness. for a mother, her kids' happiness comes first than hers.
goodluck!
and congrats! i know you'll be a good father and a good husband!
2006-10-17 15:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by johannea 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would start on telling her how much you love ya girlfriend and if she knows yall have been trying say well you know we've been trying and well we're gonna be parents and I"m so happy. If she doens't know yall have been trying say mom I know I'm ya angel and I'll always be. But now I'm gonna have my own little angel. And ya gonna be a grandma. If she's made in time she'll get over and be happy for yall
2006-10-17 15:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sondra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Grandma and Grandpa! They'll be like what? and you just say oh my girlfriends pregnat, get the money get the baby celebrate! Congrats=]
♥ ;; s a r a h
2006-10-17 15:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by ○◘•DaNdAnA•◘○ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulations! bringing a new life into this world is beautiful... as for your mum, just say, "ma, in nine months time you will know how it feels to be a proud grandma..."
oh and dont forget to get married sooner rather that later. your child will be happy to know that he/she were born after you and your gf got married. - like normal kids... speaking of which, do you want a boy or girl? - what are you going to name it? - id like to know.... get back to me in nine months...lol
2006-10-17 16:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by flee1906 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and say mom I just want to tell you that I love you and I wanna thank you for everything youve done..... and now its about time for me to mature and step into a new chapter in my life and thats beein a father..... mom and .......... are gonna have a baby!!!!
2006-10-17 15:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by ballerinagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋