Is a boyfriend more important than friends?
2006-10-17 14:44:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
both of you are right and wrong.. there is no easy answer here.. she feels left behind and does not know how to handle you having someone else in your life, and you are not giving her the time she needs as a friend..... I know it sounds corny, but she was your friend before he came along, so YOU have to figure out how to fit both of them into your life.. if you think the friendship is worth saving, then you have to be the one to save it... get a calendar out, sit down with her and make some time just for her, like on a saturday afternoon, give her your complete attention for 3 hrs doing things ya'll used to do..... you could do this 2 sats a month, and maybe an afternoon in the week thrown in... explain to her that this is all new to you and that you hope she will give you the time to figure it all out..... God bless
2006-10-17 14:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is wrong in this situation. Before the boyfriend, both of you were each others world. Now that the boyfriend is in play, and if your friend does not have a boyfriend, then she is experiencing a natural jealously, sometimes it can not be controlled. What needs to happen, by you, is that you need to make time for both your friend and boyfriend. And no!, boyfriends are not more important than friends --- remember that boyfriends are also friends too.
2006-10-17 21:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Shades 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend is kinda actingthe same way about me adn my boyfriendm well she was now shes better. she toldf me herself she was jealous. that mayeb what it is so even though i knwo you want to spend as much time as possible withyour new boyfriend, include her too or you two wont be friends for much longer. try no to be all over him when shes around, and include her in pretty much everything you do with your b/f adn vise versa so you can have both. if she is jealous she may not want to admit it beacuse she might feel bad abut it. so dont ask her unless you think its right, dont get snippy at her and ask her why shes ignoreign you b/c theres a 97% chance that the b/f thing is it. explain to your b/f that thats what you think is wrong you not sure but think, inform him that your going to be inviting her along sometimes and make sure hes okay with that, if hes not hes not worth your time if he can handle beign friends with your friends. friends are more important. good luck
2006-10-17 21:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No a boyfriend is not more important. But maybe your friend is giving you space to spend time with your b/f. No you didn't do anything wrong. I had a friend do that before and when I asked her that is what she said.
2006-10-17 21:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Justwondering 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Boyfriend is not more important than friends, husband yeah, but not boyfriend. But if she is spazzing about you having a man she is either jealous cos she does not have one or maybe she likes the guy you are with. I would confront her and find out what her deal is.
2006-10-17 21:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her why. Does she have a problem with your boyfriend? Is she jealous? Did she like your boyfriend, too? Or maybe she's just insecure on how to act now that you're no longer single. Talk to her...figure some things out.
2006-10-17 21:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think friends come first. BUt i bet that she's just jealous. give her sum time. talk to her about it. Honey, don't let ur friends put u down. But whatever u believe in. What do u think is more important? Would u chose ur friends or ur boyfriend? the choice is urs. MAKE THE RITE ONE!
2006-10-17 21:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by annetteXskye 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hy hons gay, boyfriends daviie and steeviie hons, yes a boyfriend is more iomportant like sharing things in life understanding you intimantely, and theres a fine line betwenn frinds than having a boyfriend who is your soulmate and bed partner hons, you must understand the meaning of controlling your upeer fellings for a boyfriend and , communicatting with friends yes a huge huge difference hons we know. and your other friend is jealous hons.
2006-10-17 21:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is feeling like you won't have time for her anymore. Maybe a little jealous, if she doesn't have a guy. Spend time with her..Boyfriends come and go but friendships can last a lifetime.
2006-10-17 21:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she just probably feels jealous or left out. it could also be that she feels uncomfortable seeing you with a guy when she hasn't got one too. just talk to her about things and find out why she has been ignoring you. the worst thing to do with this kinda of thing is to leave it unsaid and then you don't know where you stand.
2006-10-17 21:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋