i'm an 18 yr. old male and i like girls alot and...i think its possible i like guys too.
i used to be friends with this guy and now when i see him i'm filled with a weird feeling. its not the feeling i get when i see a girl, its different. i don't know if its a feeling of jealousy, wishing i looked like he does. but i find myself staring at him in gym glass, and i'm confused, i don't know if it's being bi, becuz i like girls, or bi-curious or just jealousy. i don't exactly have sexual thoughts about guys so i...i'm confused
2006-10-17 14:37:00 · 12 answers · asked by thee wojc 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like you are just trying to find yourself, I am a straight women and I see beautiful women and think they are beautiful and sometimes wish I could look like them. I think you just admire him. You will get over it once you find Who U are. If you think you are curious ask yourself, Do you ever wonder how it feel to be with the same sex, would you ever try it. If these are NO answers you are not curious. But on the other hand I think all straight ppl wonder how it is on the other side we just know we wont go there.
2006-10-17 14:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by wonder woo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're at an age where you are supposed to be experimenting and figuring things out. Don't limit yourself by deciding you are one way or the other. Sometimes a particular person will have the qualities that we are attracted to, and nothing says it has to be the opposite gender. Doesn't mean you are gay or bisexual, it simply means you are a normal sexual human and your buttons are pushed by certain things.
Now what you do about that is the obvious question. I think that is almost impossible for guys your age in this day and time to explore your sexuality. Its a big risk in most communities. And I don't think anyone could blame you if you don't want to take that risk. But recognize that at some point in time you might want to. Again, a sexual encounter will not make you gay or bi any more than it will make you straight. Plenty of us had relationships and marriages to the opposite gender and alot of had children. That doesn't make us straight at all obviously.
Good luck to you, do what you want to do.
2006-10-17 14:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a gay male and I know what you mean , It is hard when you are young to know what to do when you have feeling that you don't know what do with . When I first realized I was attracted to guys it was hard for me to accept , but I had to go out and experiment in order to know for sure . If you want to know for sure the only way you will find out is to try it with another guy . I or no one else can say that you are bi or bi curious You are the only one that determine that for yourself . It may just be this particular guy you are fascinated with . If that is the case I would say you may never have these feelings again , but if you find something in particular attractive about other guys then I would say you are bi . I hope this helps .
2006-10-17 15:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bi-curious.
2006-10-17 17:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not having sexual thoughts about guys you are pretty certain to be straight. As a general rule, if you are sexually attracted to someone you know it, is it that way for you with women? If you don't feel much the same thing for this fellow, then it is probably just some level of admiration or envy, nothing to worry about.
2006-10-17 16:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I girl or boys sexuality is what they choose. If they are attracted to boys or girls or even both, hos does that make them so different?!?!?! They are still humans with feelings. I am 100% for men. When people say stuff like are all girls BI it annoys me because how does that effect the person asking the question! How this helped your question!!! =)
2016-03-28 13:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You envy him to say the least. If you want to try to be with him sexualy, then you are leaning bi curious
2006-10-17 16:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it sounds like you are, and you know what, there is absolutly NOTHING wrong with it or you. these are normal feelings some people feel.
I would maybe get to know him more first before trying anything to see if you feel he has the same type feelings for you.
2006-10-17 18:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by JoAnne H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're attracted to him, chances are it's just bi-curiousity. It doesn't mean you're bi or gay. It just means you're, you know, curious.
2006-10-17 14:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you used to be friends with him? maybe the weird feeling is just missing the lost friendship.
2006-10-17 15:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋