So my exgirlfriend is my nextdoor neighbor and she broke up with me 2 monthes ago because she said she missed/love her ex boyfriend from last year. i've been on and off really close friends with her since and i think i still love her. She gets really clsoe sometimes and still looks into my eyes like she loves me. I told her I have accepted that we can't be together and it seems like shes stringing me along. what should i do? It is so hard to avoid her because she lives so close and i can tell she really wants the attention from me;
2006-10-17 14:19:08 · 21 answers · asked by im bringing sexy back 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
honey get up and get outta there. you are a human being and she shouldn't be treating you like crap..which she is btw. she wants you b/c you're available. not b/c of love. you want love. you want it committed or at LEAST not on a string..and guess what? you deserve it! *hug* email anytime. i'll always be here to talk.
2006-10-17 14:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by snowbunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that she's just confuse. Tell her straight out, that if she don't see you as a bf anytime soon, it's best that the 2 of you don't meet up so often. It's tough when the 2 of u just broke up and by meeting so often...it's just gonna make things more complicated. Take some time off from her. Though it may hurt but I guess that's the best thing you can do for now. Try giving her excuse not to meet up. By then she should know who she really wants to be with. Who knows that the person might just be u!
2006-10-17 14:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Aranel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't be in a position to "get" her to open as much as you. she would be in a position to open up if she feels comfortable - yet sounds to me such as you adult men have some matters that are complicating your relationship. the advice i might supply is - don't be a million) too desperate, or 2) too pushy. basically be your self, have a solid time along with her - yet don't be throughout her in any way. ok, she has this loopy concept which you in basic terms p.c. her for intercourse; properly, do no longer strengthen intercourse in any respect, shop your hands to your self, and revel interior the verbal substitute. i'm no longer probable particular what her project is - i don't get it how can a woman be with somebody for 2 years, and be confident that this individual is basically along with her because of the fact of intercourse; it is basically stupid. It sounds to me like she, herself, does not comprehend what she needs - and that's form of a volatile concern for you, as you may get your coronary heart broken comfortably. basically be careful, ok. solid success.
2016-12-26 21:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will always have a special place in your heart for you. However, she might not be mature enough to leave you in peace. She might feel that you could be her backup, if another relationship does not work out. That can be tough on You; wanting her but not having her.
You'll have to confront her, and tell her, in clear terms what you're feeling.
2006-10-17 14:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by VmC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it, get it out in the open. What kind of reationship does she want with you and you with her. Then go from there. Stop jerking each others chain and either get together and go youe seperate ways. Even if you are neighbours move forward.
2006-10-17 14:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is sending you mixed messages. She needs to make up her mind she can't be with her current, and emotionally string you along as well. If I were you I would sit down and tell her how you feel and tell her she needs to make up her mind. If she stays with her current then I suggest keeping away from her.
2006-10-17 14:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants something to fall back on, and wants to keep you close so that you don't move on just in case she wants you back. Has she hooked back up with this ex she left you for? If so, you need to start dating so that you're not so available to her and you can get over it.
2006-10-17 14:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I kno its hard because yall r so close but you need to tell her that if she wants to be with u she need to tell you because this could interfere with your friendship and you need to kno if she loves you as a friend or as a boyfriend
2006-10-17 14:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to have her cake & eat it too. Don't give it to her! Respect yourself. If she dumped you for her ex, then that is the choice SHE made. Don't make yourself accessible to her so she can come into your life when it's CONVENIENT FOR HER then leave when she's bored of it. You deserve someone who is committed to you. Not you & him & him & him...Need more advice? E-mail me. Been there, done that.
2006-10-17 14:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by moonbaby3504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she wants to keep your attention, you are her back-up plan. Tell her you've met a really great girl, and will be busy.
2006-10-17 14:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by venusiaint 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋