This is a serious question! I get really hot in the week or so before my period starts, and I do strange things like want to get on my boyfriend or stare at other girls' boobs (I'm not lesbo-- girls do this, trust me)... What do I do to release this without having sex or looking at porn or touching myself or others!? I'm serious... I know it may sound like a hilarious, stupid question, but this is a serious concern-- I would like a clean solution to this dirty problem. Thanks!
2006-10-17 14:18:37 · 15 answers · asked by reba 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There is nothing dirty about self stimulation. If you really feel that this is a problem and you want to abstain from any sort of sex, try exercise to take your mind off of it (or a cold shower). I used to be the same way, but having kids now sort of kills it for me. Good luck!
2006-10-17 14:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Stacy 4 · 17⤊ 0⤋
first off...theres nothing dirty about it...but if u want 2 stop...and r lookin 4 a quick fix, try goin on the pill..it changes around ur cycle, and might make that particular part easier to control...+ certin brands of the pill make u get ur period like 3 or 4 times a year, so even if it diddn't stop it u would only have to deal with it that often
good luck, and remember that it is natural
2006-10-17 14:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by shawn b 3 · 11⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I can't even help myself with this one. It's normal. *sigh* Being a girl sucks.
The only real release I can think of is masturbation or sex, but you've already stated you dislike this. As silly as this sounds, I just read manga or watch anime. Non-hentai (porn) thank you. I can recommend some not-nasty titles, just something to try.
2006-10-17 16:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by 0 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
It's not a dirty problem! There are so many hormones going up and down before and during your period. It's completely normal. Just have sex and release the anxiety of it!
2006-10-17 14:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by [ Xtine ] 2 · 17⤊ 2⤋
It's not dirty trust me a lot of women go though the same thing. my wife did. she was horny before and after and usually into the period. There is basically nothing you can do about it except wait until it passes. Occupy yourself thinking of soemthing else :):)
2006-10-17 14:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there any apart from what you don't want to do. Most women (not girls) get like you do just before a period and yes you are normal.
2006-10-17 14:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by jizzi 4 · 15⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, as this is your most fertile time of the month. Other than taking the birth control pill, which makes you feel calmer the entire month, there's not much to do.
2006-10-17 14:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by 13th Floor 6 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Yes I experience similar things before and during my period. Luckily my husband doesn't mind the mess. I am extremly horny and beg for it.
2006-10-17 14:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by TennesseeGirl 2 · 16⤊ 1⤋
hmm...get a vibrating back massager or order a vibrator. You are normal. Don't worry.
2006-10-17 18:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Saura 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It's not a dirty problem. You just think it is. Just masturbate like everyone else.
2006-10-17 14:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by flip4449 5 · 21⤊ 0⤋