I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years and we have a beautiful 1yr old daughter. We shared alot of ups and downs but in the end i see myself growing old with him, getting married and making our family permint. But he has told me before he doesnt want to get married. I want to know how long should i wait till i decide to find someone else who shares the exact quality as me.
2006-10-17 13:54:14 · 7 answers · asked by angie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Clearly, he doesn't want to commit, well, I guess you deserve someone who would love you completely and someone who would stay beside you for all time. Not someone who doesn't even want to marry you... not even for the sake of your daughter which is his daughter too! so, find someone better than him! Go... Goodluck.
2006-10-17 14:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why wait for him to make your mind up, he's already made his choice clear to you. So you want to get married, you want to settel sown, he dosnt., don't wait around getting older every year and then look back with a million regrets of "if only I'd had the guts to move forward" Don't make the mistake of staying with him in the hope that he'll change his mind. Move on forward with your daughter, let hi see his little girl as much as he wants to also but just move on. In time, he might see you moving forward and he might then change his mind when he realizes that he dosnt want to lose you, but then again, he might not change his mind and the right Mr Right will come along. At the moment your settleing for Right Now and not Mr Right. Whatever you do, DO NOT give him the marry me or else choice, because in the end if he says ok, lets get married, you'll never ever feel comfortable in the marriage because you gave him a shotgun wedding.
2006-10-17 14:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts when your significant other says that they are not interested in marriage-as much as you do. find out what's the reason for him to say NO to marriage.you are not alone right now. you have a daughter you need to take care of. he needs to be responsible as well.if this is not working out for you, i'm sure there are guys out there who are willing to commit into a marriage with you and love you and your daughter life long.
2006-10-17 14:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by chandni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have waited long enough! give him an ultimatum, get married or else, and be prepared to do the or else.
2006-10-17 13:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by kat_lucas60 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he doesn't want to marry you and he's made it obvious, then screw him!! you need a man who loves you and your child who you can also imagine growing old with him!!!! 4get this fake!!!
2006-10-17 14:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him now. Please do not grow old unhappy and living your life with a loser. Move on.
2006-10-17 14:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u sud consider ur relation wid him first.. u guyz have a kid... he sud have feelingz about gettin marryin u.. just talk wid him about it.. den c wat u can do n wats best 4 u
2006-10-17 14:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by MoOn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋