i hav this friend and she is like sooooooooooooooo damn bossyyyyyy all the time do this do that im tired of it but i still want to be her friend i just wish she'd change her attitude agh-ugh!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 13:47:08 · 30 answers · asked by nahir_lozza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry, Honey. It's impossible to befriend this person and make her respect and appreciate you. As long as she knows you're trying to win her over the more aggressive, dominant and unresponsive she will be toward you. Ask yourself this question: "Why is it so important to have a person of such little appreciation for me to be involved in my life?". Keep yourself open and available to meet new people who may become very dear friends. Good Luck.
2006-10-17 13:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ozzie B. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 16:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, let her know that she has an attitude problem. If she does not get it, then get rid off her. Don't waste your precious time on people like her. She may be doing that on purpose, to show that she is dominant in your relationship. I am sure there are plenty other people who want to be friends with you.
2006-10-17 13:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why do you go along with her bossiness? I wouldn't want to be a friend with this kind of person. There are takers and there are givers, which is SHE?. She probably won't change her attitude and you can't make her, so if you want this kind of friendship, you're going to be wearing a collar.
2006-10-17 13:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay umm,...if u were u, i wouldn't be her friend. But since i'm not and u do want to be her friend, tell her how u feel. u know. open up to her. she'll never change her ways unless u let her know what she's doing to u. let her know that u still want to be her friend but to change her attitude or else nobody will like her.
2006-10-17 13:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by annetteXskye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself, "Why do I want to be her friend?" Does she have cool clothes you can borrow? Or does she know cool friends you can get to know too? Or do you feel better having many friends?
I think if you know why you want to be her friend, it becomes easier to decide to try to put up with her bossiness. But remember, it's hard to change people. You'll have to put up with a lot of bossiness if you stick around.
2006-10-17 13:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by VmC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sweetly, very gently tell her she's being bossy and say something like: "You know I love ya but I'd just love ya so much more if you weren't so bossy." You know you do because in spite of this one character trait you want to be her friend.
2006-10-17 13:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Babs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she needs to stop being so bossy, nobody likes it. And if she doesnt want to change that then i dont see why you would want to continue to be her friend. Hope everything works out for ya
2006-10-17 13:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by krisbohanon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no disrespect but get off your lazy *** for once im tired then laugh like your just joking and do what she asks after that shell be embaresed to boss you so much been there done that good luck and god bless
2006-10-17 13:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't hate a friend. Might want to work on that. There's some talking you guys have to do
2006-10-17 13:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by fancy unicorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋