question is simple enough ,dont think any details are needed only detail which may b needed is that i m a one woman man and beleive in love and truth and commitment,lost and got shocked and defeated at all these 3 !
2006-10-17 13:33:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no, and my question to you my friend is: why? can you honestly tell me that she is the perfect person for you even though she is putting you through so much pain or is it that you are too attached to her to let go? look, if she hurt you more than once yet promised to change and so forth would you believe that? no! because once a liar always a liar and once a cheater always a cheater! look, even if she is given another chance by you she would never change because old habits die hard-see the movie Alfie eventhough it is a chickflick and you might connect to some of the characters! look, she knows that if she is given another chance she can hurt you again and you would take her back again and again and again. so if i were you i would say "adios" to her and hola to a new life! why put up with someone who will cheat on you or make you lose your trust multiple times, the #1 thing besides love that relationships are based upon. you could do better than her and find a nice girl who would not treat you as bad as she is!
2006-10-17 13:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out to a sleazy bar. The action you get there wont disappoint you when she's gone in the morning. Forget about love for a long time friend. Time to listen to your balls. Quit trying so hard and enjoy your life a little bit. You sound like me at a more precious time in my life past.
Get some self esteem and let the tramp go. You tried way to hard and lack the selective eye and self confidence to find yourself someone better. Love really sucks sometimes and this is what you got to do is just suck it up. And have a little funeral for your love life in your own mind. Wake up tomorrow and get a grip of yourself. She hasn't had your kids hopefully. And hopefully she never will with anyone.
Forgive yourself now for trying so hard and recognize your fault in that. From experience here, I promise you there are definately women out there in the world that are quite evil. Dont EVER put yourself in a position again in your life where you are justifying your libido.
You are a man. So be one.
2006-10-17 13:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am similar to you, but I am a woman, I have been hurt VERY badly, by someone I was engaged to, then I found out he was MARRIED to someone else! I went through so much emotional trauma, and it made it extremely difficult for me to trust anyone! But after about four years I did recover, and now I am in a healthy, loving relationship again, so you will trust again, it just takes time. Go slow. Good Luck to you, I feel your pain!
2006-10-17 13:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should hope so my friend. Don't lump them all together just because you got three losers off the bat. My recommendation would be to try and date a few different women. Don't get so involved that they are exclusive, but hang out and make friends. Don't rush into making a new relationship. Get back to yourself. Get in shape, get involved with your community, and learn to trust yourself before you get back into being with someone seriously. It sounds like you left yourself behind for long enough.
2006-10-17 13:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by Just another 2D character online 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember one thing, when your dating again......NOT ALL WOMEN WILL BREAK YOUR HEART. You may choose the ones that do, but one day there will be one who will love and care for you like you need to be....i went through the same thing for like six years. Every guy i cared about either didnt care about me or cheated on me. Except one, he was married...But now, i have the best man, and we r engaged and have been together for almost 6 years.Good luck on your quest.
2006-10-17 13:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals. We can't always see what type of person we are with ahead of time. Don't let the next one know your weakness. Sometimes it attracts the same type of person back to you again. Be confident and keep an eye open. Good Luck
2006-10-17 13:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds my friend. It just really sucks that all the GOOD women are represented to you by this sleaze. Trust me, we are not all like that. You will trust again & love again....in time. When the RIGHT one comes along, you will know it. Until then, play your hand aloof (don't get too serious). Don't wear your heart on your sleeve. It's too easy to take that way.
2006-10-17 14:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by moonbaby3504 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand the style you sense. I truthfully have been in the process an identical undertaking. My advice is to take an prolonged destroy and purely get to appreciate you first. Dont date or pass out yet so as to thoroughly heal out of your previous. This too shall pass.
2016-10-02 09:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is but it may take years befor you give your all to someone
2006-10-17 13:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK my ex boyfriend is becoming more and more of a pu----wimp every day and he's been hurt SEVERAL TIMES but there is hope for someone that isn't a feminist man
2006-10-17 13:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋