ok I have this friend who keeps telling my gurlfriend that im cheating on her but me and my gurlfriend both know that it isn't true but it starting to get really annoying what should i do and i don't want to fight i have too many things too lose so any solutions
thanks
2006-10-17 13:23:23 · 16 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well so long as you and your girlfriend know it's not true then why bother. That person is a loser anyways.
I think your girlfriend should stop talking to that person immediately, and stand up for you. You can resolve conflicts with out fighting. like try and make them feel like idiots. there is no violence involved in that and you can really do some ego damage.
2006-10-17 13:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by elina6663 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You and your girlfriend should sit down together with this person and let them know that neither one of you appreciate the way that they are trying to cause problems in your relationship. You can be nice and matter of fact, you don't have to fight or yell or even argue - just lay out the facts and ask them to stop what they are doing. It will be more powerful if you and your girl are there at the same time so they can see that you both know it's a lie.
2006-10-17 20:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both you and your girlfriend have a heart to heart talk with him. Tell him you do not appreciate his accusations and to cut it out. Both you and your girlfriend stand together as two are stronger than one. Let him know in no uncertain terms that you both are united together and will no longer accept his "kidding."
He sounds like he may be secretly jealous of you having a girlfriend, if he doesn't have one. You may want to spend some time with him if you were friends with him before your girlfriend came along. He may feel left out and long for the friendship you both once had.
2006-10-17 20:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him thats all you can do!!! Expalin to him how you feel and that you do not like being treated that way and if he still continues stop being freinds with him!! He will get the picture soon enough!! And good thinking thats great that you dont want to fight because it really is not worth it!!!
2006-10-17 20:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by mommy of 3 baby boys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL ! FIRST OF ALL YOU SAID ( " YOU HAVE A FRIEND " ) SORRY BRO. HE'S NOT YOUR FRIEND , HE IS MORE LIKELY TRYING TO BREAK YOU TWO UP SO HE CAN BE THE HERO AND DATE YOUR LADY. AND YOU RIGHT , DON'T FIGHT HIM JUST IGNORE HIM , AND WHEN HE COMES OVER TO VISIT TELL HIM ,WITH FRIENDS LIKE YOU ( " WE " ) DON'T NEED ENEMIES SO PLEASE JUST TAKE A HIKE AND DON'T COME BACK OR WE WILL PUT A RESTRAINING ORDER ON YOU WITH THE POLICE DEPARTMENT , BECAUSE WHAT HE IS DOING IS CALLED ( HARASSMENT AND THIS IS AGAINST THE LAW , IT'S TIME FOR YOU AND YOUR LADY TO STOP BEING SO NICE TO THIS JERK.!!!
2006-10-17 20:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by I'M JUST TRYING TO HELP YOU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the "friend." If you and your girlfriend know that he is telling lies, what is there to worry about?
My best friend just had the same situation happen, the guy wanted her to be his girlfriend and thought that by sabotaging their relationship he would have her.
2006-10-17 20:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him when he tells your girlfriend that you are cheating or go along with it. He will get the picture if he realizes it has no effect anymore
2006-10-17 20:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, who ever is not your friend! A friend simply don't do that!
Deal this person out of your lives both you and your girl friend1
2006-10-17 20:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So stop being "friends" with this person. Just stop talking to him and be too busy to hang out with him.
2006-10-17 20:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as long as he knows you both know it isn't true try not to let him worry you over it; harder to ignore if he gets in your face-is this at school? know it's not cool to snitch, but a coach or staff member needs to be aware of his harassment
2006-10-17 20:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋