my relationship is good and we love eachother but i feel it is more because we are comfortable. There is no passion in our relationship it is rather boring and routine, is that enough to end it?
2006-10-17 13:16:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you think you're relationship is boring why not try something else i mean...an adventure...you have to plan to make your relationship more fruitful..maybe you're just telling it because you simply go on a routine basis...if you really love the guy..make some surprising stuff...that if you really want to keep you relationship....it's very hard to look for a guy these days...Much better if you will stick with your man in that way you already know him....
Ending a relationship sometimes will just make you feel all alone and you'll simply miss all the good times...and will realize that you really love that guy.....t.c.
2006-10-17 13:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by xrae12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not send this email, you should end this in person. Before he comes over have everything ready to give him, including the ring. Stop asking him for help, get out there and get a job, and move on with your life. You have messed up enough, not only for his family, but your family as well. What an example you have set, and I do hope that his family never finds out about you, what a disappointment he will be to his children. You say you love him, but to you he is just a meal ticket. He is someone that made your life easier. and you didn't care what it would do to his family. To him you are the excitement he doesn't feel at home, he could, but then it would mean that he would have to work at making his family life better, and he doesn't want to do that. You really deserve each other. Both losers.
2016-03-28 13:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to end it when it's good? If you go out, find someone else, and your with them long enough it might get boring again. Do you just want to keep trading in guys when you get bored with them? You can solve the problem of passion but you can't expect it to just come to you. Try new things with your partner. Buy books and videos to help living things up.
2006-10-17 13:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something you absolutely enjoy together, taking a hike, watching the sunset, go biking together.... endless possibilities.
Nd just a note of caution, you just might get what you wish for, and end up in another relationship that is so wild, stressful and so out of this world, you'd wish you stayed with the so-called "boring" and "routine" world you have now.... :)
2006-10-17 13:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships go thru spells you in the boring one maybe you need to spice things up comfortable is great it's better than being alone I've got 31 years of experence why do you think there is so much divorce people get use to instant satisfaction life is a process it's up and down
2006-10-17 13:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by dogydoorman@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try and spice things up, try and do things outside of your routine. Until you've exausted every other option, I don't think it's enough to end the relationship assuming he's not doing anything shady.
2006-10-17 13:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by wsguy1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!!! That's not enough to end it!! If you really love him, you can find ways to spice things up, trust me!! It's easy to become "comfortable" with each other......but don't end it because things seem boring........try some new things....get back to the root of what made you fall in love to begin with.....Good luck!!
2006-10-17 13:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur not happy then end it but try to talk and see if u can figure out a way to spice up the relationship and if not then if you don't see it going anywhere end it.
2006-10-17 13:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I say quit on it. what's the point since its boring and routine. Forget trying to work it out even though you love him and he loves you. what are you saying??? everything takes work and if you two are not cut out for it then quit. nothing good comes easy and you have to want to work at it, but if you don't just quit
2006-10-17 13:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's enough to end...I feel sorry for you. You're gonna be going from relationship to relationship if you keep this up.
2006-10-17 13:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋