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My husband and I have been married for almost 6 years, and I want to start spicing things up in the bedroom :) We have tried almost any position there is out there, but I guess I'm looking for more than that. What have u done? What would u do? Adding another person (like a 3some) is NOT an option, we are strictly monogomous.

2006-10-17 13:13:34 · 20 answers · asked by JustMe 4 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Role play is an option. Dressing up like the Easter bunny or homeless person. It does not matter.

You can also go the toys route. Just be very careful. They can be very addictive. Pornography is also a great option. You'd be amazed just how many ways a couple can make love. Once again be very careful this too can become an addiction.

A real turn on is going no further than just foreplay. It can take you back to the days when you first met. If you felt it was very passionate experience, that's because it really is. If you both can agree to not "close the deal", foreplay in this way can be very intense and fulfilling.

2006-10-17 13:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

In the Adult Stores they have lots of interesting games. Some involving feathers, paint, blindfolds. They also have some good books like 101 Great Nights of Sex, where there are all these little closed packets, some for you and some for him. Without opening them you each choose one, and when the time is right you play out what is on the card. It could be a whole romatic evening + to just things involving different food and drinks. It is really great for different ideas.

2006-10-17 20:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by zippy p 3 · 1 0

This is the question that's been raised since Adam and Eve. The people in here have given great ideas, but nothing out of the ordinary. You have to use your imagination more than the average person. Here are a couple of suggestions that I hope everyone enjoys.
First: After you get into bed (nude, or nearly so) and the lights are off, and it seems like there isn't going to be any "fun" activity happening, you need to pull the blankets over your head and turn on the flashlight that you have placed under your pillow, without your spouse knowing you put it there. Turn the flashlight on and shine it on him until he looks under the blankets to see what you are doing. Then, give him the flashlight and tell him to shine it wherever he wants to, and to explore you like he has never explored anything!! Then tell him that it's ok for him to do whatever he wants to do, with the spots that he is shining the lights on. Next time, it's your turn to explore!

Second: wigs will help you transform into two different women between the sheets. Early in the evening, hide two wigs and a silk blindfold under your pillow. Later when you're heading to bed, leave a light on; he'll want to fully appreciate what's going to happen next. Secure the blindfold in place, and whisper that your friend Stacy (or make up a name) is coming over... and you hope he likes blondes (or whatever colors you have). Put on the wig and kiss him again. Let him feel the long locks against his chest. Slowly take off his blindfold and let him take you in. Stick your hand in his boxers, and ask him if he's ever been seduced by a blonde before. Give him a little oral teasing. After he is excited, put the blindfold back on and then put on the next wig. Introduce yourself as Cindy and tell him that Stacy said he was good in bed ‑- but you wanted to see for yourself. Take his blindfold off, and let him take in every inch of beautiful brunette you. Let him do what he wishes with the brunette, then before he goes all the way, blindfold him again and take off the wig and when you take his blindfold off, tell him that you know that it's hard just to look at other women, but that you're glad he brings his excitement back to you....then make history!!!! Good Luck

2006-10-17 20:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0 1

Get out of the bedroom! Leave the house completely, and find a nice hide away. The mountains or the beach. Or get a nice hotel room with a great view. Put rose petals all over the floor and bed (they feel great when walked upon) put candles all over the room and have a nice bottle of wine on ice. And don't forget the music!

2006-10-17 20:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Adam 3 · 3 0

Toys are always an option, lotions, sexy movies can do alot in the bedroom - doesn't necessarily have to be porn, but something sexy leaving some to the imagination. There are dice that I think Spencer gifts has that tells you sex things to do on them. Try strip poker - any number of things will work.

2006-10-17 20:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by me 4 · 0 0

Okay I may get a few thumbs down for this one but what the hell lol. EVERYONE knows how men are visual right? So....here is two ideas..One...you could make your own porn movie with him. Start out by your self...just tape yourself telling to the camera what you are going to do to him when he gets home...then start taking off your cloths and stop the tape. When he gets home just play it to him when the time is right.....then if you want finish the tape with him doing what ever you want to do. Then erase the tape after. Trust me it will really turn him on.
Two....if your not into the taping idea....give him a show. Sit him down and tell him all he can do till YOU tell him otherwise is watch. Start pleasuring yourself...how far you go and for how long is up to you....and he can not move till you say so. If you can time it right just before you are about to orgasm tell him to come over beside you and give him a BJ as you orgasm....he will never forget it trust me. what ever you decide to do...just make sure its something that you will enjoy too....its a BIG turn on for a guy to know that his partner is really into what is happening....not that they are just doing it for them.
Have fun *S*

2006-10-17 20:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by oldman 4 · 0 1

I agree that adding a person is not the thing to do!
Here's what I'd suggest;
Roleplaying - get really into it, such as the doctor & patient, teacher & student, etc.
Buy outfits.. You don't have to go to a sex store to get outfits. Just get outfits you could wear for halloween like a cheerleader, geenie, etc.
Also, buy some sexual dice so you can take turns rolling the die to see what you'll do to one another.
And, don't forget... you can always add toys like whips, chains, cuffs, vibrators, dildos, etc.

2006-10-17 20:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0 1

try role playing or get some props i use to play a game called romantic rendevous getting a little dirty try oils hot candle wax cuffs whips stunt guns lol what ever you can come up with watch a porn and act it out or watch you own porn sex in public is always nice sex while on a freeway

2006-10-17 20:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by deionnie2 2 · 0 1

Try out some fantasies. Costumes, toys, videos,etc

2006-10-17 20:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

try role playing...I'd like to someday as soon as my hubby gets comfortable with the idea!
we haven't tried toys yet, but have used whipped cream, dressing in trashy lingerie (sp?) and using the feather duster with edible dusting powder.
Happy love making!

2006-10-17 20:19:40 · answer #10 · answered by bornagain 2 · 0 1

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