Could I be the father? From the last time I slept with my ex until she gave birth was 42 weeks and 1 day, I slept with her on the Saturday she told me she had a period on the Monday that lasted a week (I don't know if this is true). And then apparently on the rebound of splitting with me she slept with a guy a week later, which is why, I am confused. She says the baby's his but I fear she is saying that to spite me for ending our three-year relationship. This has worried me for months if I am the father I want to be part of his life if any one can help it would mostly be appreciated
2006-10-17 12:58:58 · 18 answers · asked by kev 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Could be especially if this is her first child the pregnancy can go past 40 weeks
if your worried that this is your child get a paternity test done. DNA doesnt lie! and congrats for wanting to step and be a part of this childs life!
2006-10-17 13:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by llllll_amanda_lllllll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly you should have the paternity test done, they swab ur mouth or take a little blood. because i know girls who come into the health dep and say they had sex with a couple of guys during the same week, and its better to know now while the child is small then find out later when ur in love but very hurt cause u find out it isnt yours. dont hesitate, get it now.
2006-10-17 13:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by nicky l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds personal but was it a period or slight bleeding? Makes a huge difference. If in doubt speak to a solicitor and get a DNA test done to check. At least your mins will be put at rest.
2006-10-21 11:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Tory1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a paternity test done and find out for sure. It is always good to hear a man step up and want to take part of thier childs life.
http://www.dnacenter.com/
2006-10-17 13:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tonys_Bebe_Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get pregnant at any time really! If you are really so unsure and worried about this, you should ask for a paternity test. They can be painless and quick and this way, you will know for sure and be able to relax a bit.
2006-10-17 20:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a paternity test done. Thats the only way to truely find out. Good luck.
2006-10-17 13:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is through a paternity test.
2006-10-17 13:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are on bad terms, your ex may allow you to have a DNA test done.
But a court can over rule this. If you are the baby's father, you have legal rights and responsibilities for this child.
Don't make it a fight though, stay calm, and be as nice to her as possible, even if she makes your life hell, as the baby can pick up on thse negative vibes. Good luck. :)
2006-10-17 22:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by EMMA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, do get a paternity test and also, tell her that even if he/she isn't your child, you will do anything to help her. This will show her that there are no hard feelings (even if there are). And from there, the paternity test, if she refuses to let you see the baby, then you take it to court.
2006-10-17 13:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by Smo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi huni, you need to get a test done because normally you wont have a period after conceiving but me being me did and some people do so you need to go down to your solicitor and have a chat.good luck.i hope you get the results you want
2006-10-17 13:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋