i been married for 6 yrs my husband left he claims he never cheated on me but told me he loves me but doesnt want to live with me due to to much drama with my kids funny thing is some woman called me today i said hello she said is leslie there i was like this is she so unded like she paused after i said that and she hanged up i started to cry really soon after wondering would my husband give another woman my number please tell me what u think and if it is true does that mean there having problems already
2006-10-17 12:07:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For starters, when a women "knowingly" sleep with another woman's man, make her the fool, make her the weak whore. In her mind, you really didn't exist until she made contact. Sounds like your husband is breaking ties w/her and she can't accept it. DO NOT TELL YOUR HUSBAND that she called, you will be playing into her game. Just take down a mental note and stay on the path you are on. I am realizing that men love their wives, and enjoy their fredom in the streets w/ chicks flocking on them. When you have that feeling that he is cheating on you...tell him you love him. Hug him and do something special (kill him with kindness) I am a firm believer that all men do cheat, just not all the time. So I kind of expect for a man to f*ck up at least once, but make the reconciliation so painful that he will never consider doing it again. My husband cheated on me and its hard, but what can you do, Stay strong and keep moving forward with your life and dreams. God blessed him in your life for a reason. Do your part and "GOD" not your husband, will do his.
2006-10-17 12:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow girl I feel you, my mother went thru it about 15 yrs. ago and it seems like it was only yesterday. Yeah my dad got into it with of course another female and she made my mom go nuts to be exact. She started calling our house and just hanging up and then one day she ask for my dad and my mom let her have it!! I mean my mom told her off! But the Truth is, it's a very hard situation and I totally sympathize with you. Just stay calm and let one day at a time go by. But what ever you decide to do, think about the kids first!
2006-10-17 12:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Leilani B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex not only gave her the phone number but she was in my home while i was visiting my adult children in another state, i came home and some of my clothing was gone, i did not catch on because i trusted him completely.a strange truck use to pull up to the house and stop, when i told him about it, he asked what color was it, i still didn't catch on, a few months later after he kept starting fights, and finding falt, he left to be with her. i would think that your husband ischeating, why would a strange woman just call out of the blue? i ended up divorcing my ex, not my choice, not how i wanted my life to be, but to avoid anymore pain from this woman and my ex, i decided it was best for me. if you have to fight other women for your husband than he is not worth having.
2006-10-17 12:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt, wanting to hear the voice of the previous interest of their affair partner, torment of the spouse left behind --- all among the reasons why the other woman would call the wife and hang up.
2006-10-17 12:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by sglmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is very immature and is trying to annoy you and start drama. He cheated, and just used the kids as a excuse. I'm sorry he done that you, now its time to move on and focus on you and your children which is most important, because they are affected in this too. I wish you the best.
2006-10-17 12:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you get married in the previous your divorce is granted, regrettably it is observed as Bigamy, that's a criminal offense, and additionally you and the hot spouse could the two pass to detention center, to no longer point out the marriage is null and void. additionally in some states, it is nevertheless unlawful to marry somebody else till after a quantity of time has handed after your divorce. locate out the guidelines on your state from a marriage lawyer in the previous you dive off the deep end and into subject.
2016-10-19 21:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Already you say? Already? Seems to me the problem was there well before he left. You madam, are maried to what I commonly call "a worm".
Dispose of him and get on with your life and your kids. Do yourself that favor at least.
2006-10-17 12:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why she would call, ask for you, then hang up. that is very childish and stupid. she probably had something to say then got scared that you would find her and kick her a ss.your husband probably moved out bcuz he is seeing someone else. no legitimate reason for leaving is a dead give away. just let him go.your much better off
2006-10-17 12:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by krystal s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"v seen this on Jerry Springer allot, I wouldn't just suspect the female, He may be the guilty one,having given her your pH number
2006-10-17 12:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by scooterpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your loser of a husband would give out your number and the loser who called you deserves whatever your loser husband gives her just be glad he is out of your life sureilll
2006-10-17 12:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋