2006-10-17 11:34:21 · 18 answers · asked by myrtle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well that depends are you planning on leaving and never to see your kids again or are you moving to get away but still have your kids in life. If you are not wanting to leave your kids with their father then dont their your kids and they need you. So think about this no man should ever make you choose between him or your own kids.
2006-10-17 11:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave you husband and take care of your flesh & blood - your children. Children need both parents every day. If you leave your children you will regret it some day. The way I see it is that your children did not choose to be born into your family. They did not choose for their parents to get divorced. Since you are divorced, I believe it is your moral duty to take care your own children and get along with your ex for the childrens sake. After all it is in the best interest for the children.You will be forever greatful if you don't abandon them. Think about a men who wants a mother to abandon her children? Do you really think this is love or selfishness of your husbands part? Would he abandon his own children? I believe it is best to do what is moraly right and not what I wish to do at the moment. All the best to you.
2006-10-17 11:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by AC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what? and you are thinking about leaving your kids behind (by asking the question)?
YOU have serious issues with Self-Esteem and your responsibilities as a parent to your children. TAKE TIME OFF and THINK CAREFULLY About this situation -- and, if you do LEAVE the kids behind --- know that it will AFFECT The CHILDREN (mom's do NOT leave kids behind!) and YOU FOREVER -- they will ALWAYS remember MOM abandoned them.
YOU don't want your children to suffer because of this do you?
2006-10-17 12:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your kids what they think about Mommy moving away. what kind of ? is that, if you have to come on here to get us to justify if you should leave your kids. Maybe they are better off with their dad.
2006-10-17 11:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....you have to ask, then you are the kind of mother that needs to leave the children with thier dad. You put a man above them....sad
2006-10-17 11:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by liyah's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids need their mom you should stay with them. When the get older and realize that you left them to be with your husband that are going to have some abandonment issues and that really isn't fair to them at all.
2006-10-17 11:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by *Pumpkinpiespice* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hurtfulness intended here, but "you" asked, okay? I think if you felt comfortable with that scenario, you wouldn't have asked us, right? "Me" personally? No way! You didn't say how old your kids are, or how far away they would be from you, but still, I wouldn't. That's just me though. I would miss my kids so much, it would effect my marriage, & I'd probably end up divorced over it. Again, that's just "me." Good luck.
2006-10-17 11:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a responsibility to your children. You gave them life and it is your duty to raise them. You would be EXTREMELY selfish to leave them behind. In fact if you were my mother and you did that I would probably lose all respect for you and our relationship would be extremely strained.
In my oppinion it is extremely rong to chose your husband over your kids. I would never do such a thing to mine.
2006-10-17 15:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you miss your kids, I know I would!!!! Why would your husband ask you that question, does he care for your kids, cause he should. Me personally I would never and if my husband asked me that question, well he wouldn't because he knows my children are my first priority!!!
2006-10-17 11:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom always said u can have a thousand fathers but u can only have one mother. i would never leave my kids. i haven't left their sides for 12 years . since i had them . if you consider yourself a loving and nurturing mother who takes care of her kids. then u can not leave them . if they spend more time at pops house then u have no business raising them.
2006-10-17 11:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by inna357 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋