Sammy likes michael but michael pretended to like sammy to get to a pary and rec it but me and kirstyn no the truth becouse he told us and we didnt want sammy our bffl to get hurt but she got mad at us and believes Michael and now we are in a fight, i only told her the truth, and she got mad, i said sorry but she wont lison, she is the youngest in the grade and shortest so she is the "baby" and so everyone is on her side!
2006-10-17 11:30:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The first part of your question is the important part, the rest is just blah blah blah. Are you looking for someone to say, "yeah, you're right. Screw her" or do you want some honest answer?
Be the better person. You didn't start the fight, but you can end it.
2006-10-17 11:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it seems right and fair sometimes it's better not to get involved in other peoples affairs, even good friends, cause u might get blamed at the end. Not to mention that u never really know why someones sais and does what he sais and does. maybe this michael guy was playing cool and said that although he did like sammy, maybe he got to really like her later. Ofcourse maybe he is just a jerk as well. The point is she believes him. Time will reveal the truth anyway. If things are the way u describe them i don't see how an apology (for what really if u said the truth?) will help anyway,sammy obviously considers u liars. Don't say that u lied if u didn't, that's wrong, and u will be considered a proven liar by everyone if u do. Approach your friend differently, give alternatives, for instance that maybe u misunderstood michael, or maybe he was joking ect. Or stick to your story if u re sure u were not wrong. She will appreciate u in time, i m sure.
2006-10-17 11:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you recommend you probably did no longer initiate it, hellz ya you started it, so she became being stupid and makin g you mad, ya do no longer purely turn around and initiate punching her, and you gotta comprehend that. and don't you dare tell human beings you probably did no longer initiate it you took the 1st swing she purely swung decrease back in self defence, so there you acquire suspendid for commencing the combat, continueing the combat, pushing aside a instructor, and inflicting a disruption and injury to a diverse pupil. Like rather gurl, smarten up, ur being stupid...
2016-10-02 09:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then your friend is a moron who doesn't listen to anyone. She thinks that she's right. It sounds like your friend is still shocked about the truth, but is taking it out on you. Don't worry about it too much, be the mature one and wait for her to grow up. Good luck!
2006-10-17 11:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to have forgiveness. A part of that is apologizing even though we did not start it. We can apologize for being a part of it. It never is a harm to say your sorry as long as you stay true to your convictions.
2006-10-17 11:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell her to believing in u. She should believing in her BFF, if she think ya is her BFF then she should believed ya right? but if she didn't think ya is her BFF then she choose to believed Michael. I think she should listen to u, cuz BFF gotta trust each other, but if ya didn't trust each other then it's not call BFF. Well, that's the best i can say, so it's up to ur friend....who she gonna believed u or the guy she like.
2006-10-17 11:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ngoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to say your sorry, you told her the truth and thats her fault if she doesnt believe you because in the end she will end up getting hurt by him and all you can say is i told you so. she will have to learn the hard way that you didnt do it to hurt her but protect her from micheal. and thats what friends do.
2006-10-17 11:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say im sorry i told you the truth and you dont believe me.. but u are my friend and i was only looking out for you.
2006-10-17 11:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dulceata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well with my bestfriends and i we ALWAYS tell eachother everything no matter how harsh it is and u shld tell them b4 they get even more hurt. i dont think she should be thattttt mad but still
2006-10-17 11:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to end the whole thing, be the bigger person and apologize.
2006-10-17 11:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by frha75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋