If you choose to born again will you choose again to be gay?... I´m not against you... but I know is hard being one, cause there´s a lot of people that doesn´t accept thats is a way of life... a really admirable way of life
Thanx
2006-10-17 11:29:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You have no choice about "how" you are born. I would choose just to be as happy in my next life as i am in this one, and to have such a wonderful partner as i have now.
2006-10-17 23:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Nut B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of things that I would love to do over again (Work out at the gym more, pay better attention in school, go to College) but would a like to be born gay again... yes because this is who I am and there's nothing wrong with me even though there's a lot a people out there that would say different but none of them know what's in my heart.
2006-10-17 11:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally do not think I was born "gay". I think my sexual preference was formed by my socialisation and by having parents who were more open minded than the status quo. I think the fact that my parents could communicate openly with their children, and could counteract the mixed messages about sexuality that mainstream media and culture throws at children, made me the person I am. I think rather, that a person who is different than the steriotypical straight "media" defined person, has a more difficult journey. Actually, anyone who doesn't fit a certain mythological socially created definition of "normal", has a harder journey, but then they generally also, have more depth and insight into the human condition. If I had a choice, I would choose to be born again as myself.
2006-10-17 14:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Orditz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Though admittingly a harder life, I would choose to be gay again. The thing is, being gay has made me a better person. Having been the target of discrimination, I am much more compassionate in helping others who are being targeted. I am much more involved in civil rights issues including racial equality, religious equality, and poverty issues than I would probably have been had I been straight. A straight me would have possibly found a wife, had a few kids, and been indifferent to the world around them. Overall, I am a better person because of me being gay, so I don't think I would want to give it up.
2006-10-17 11:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by William B 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If I had a "choice" (mind you, we don't make the choice to be born, nor to be gay), I would be who I already am, because I am happy with how God made me! I would probably "choose" to come out at a much earlier age, since I know my family accepts me for who I am....and "choose" not to have had my previous relationship.... other than that, I gotta be me!
2006-10-17 14:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could say i would love to be born again
my this time in the right body / gender but i know i can't be so it is some thing that dose not bother me
it may be easier to follow the norm be a sheep but i would rather live life my own way
i believe every one is born bisexual,
we choose to be gay or straight
so if i was born again
i think i would still make the decision to be me
and be true to my self
2006-10-18 05:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe in a hundred years, I'd be ok w/ being reborn as a straight man, but right now, I just gotta keep working on the life I've got and dwell less on what may be, but great question! It's kind of a double-edged sword.
Honestly, however, If I knew I "had to be reborn" and had to pick one or the other, I'd have to guess that being straight would be a whole lot easier, but hey, we all got problems!
2006-10-17 11:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by pocket68rocket 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do believe in reincarnation, Dearheart, and if I could be certain of being loved in the same amount that I am now (I've got a 26 year Partner who I adore) I'd be "happy" again in an instant.
2006-10-17 11:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd be born exactly the way I am now just with a lot more money
2006-10-17 16:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would want to be born straight. It would be easier and I've always wondered how some people are only attracted to the opposite sex.
2006-10-18 04:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Liir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋