look heres the deal.i have the hots for this girl in my college class but i'm afrade to talk to her.this is the problem,this other guy likes her too and if i dont tell her how i feel in two days he gets her and I'M SCRUDE.
ps. i misspell my words on porpous.
2006-10-17 10:59:25 · 17 answers · asked by auron pen 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
try writing her a letter or a poem telling her exactly how you feel.
2006-10-17 11:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's the plan, and bare with me because it could well backfire but then you would be scewed anyway!! dont do anything, sit back and wait, let the other guy get her, then when it all falls apart which it could well do if you are only in college invariably because the other guy will mess it up, you will be right there to pick up the peices, then when you have been the shoulder to cry on for a while you make your move!!!!! of course the other guy might not mess up, they may fall in love and live happily ever after but at the end of the day you wont have missed out on anything, your crush will move onto someone else and you might enjoy your younger years without the hassle of being tied to someone, or you might just end up screwed!!!!
2006-10-17 18:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start spelling your words correctly so that she won't think you are an idiot. Whatever statement you're trying to make by misspelling your words on "porpous"...it's not working.
2006-10-17 18:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by wv mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well son, not much anyone can do for you, as you will have to find the inner strength to be mature and talk to her. I don't see any reason that you need to tell her you have the hots for her, just tell her that you would like to get to know her better and invite her to a movie, or for coffee.
2006-10-17 18:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much emphasis on "how you feel." Just go talk to her about other stuff. There must be lots going on around campus to talk about. Then work your way around to music or clubs or food and ask her if she'd like to go to where ever you were talking about. Who cares how you feel-- you need to appear interested in getting to know her, not spewing your emotions all over her.
Good luck.
(PS if a guy approached me that way, I'd date him.)
2006-10-17 18:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but if the impending deadline isn't enough motivation to at least ask her to go out for coffee with you, nothing I can say will make it any better.
2006-10-17 18:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this an arranged marriage or something?.. look the best thing to do is not to look desperate. Just be cool and laid back as if you don't care. If you can!
2006-10-17 18:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ahead and talk to her
don't be shy
and tell her how you realy feel before the other guy gets her.
maybe if you talk to her she might give you a chance
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2006-10-17 18:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? ? ? bloody_angel ??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get dunk and call him. Youl eb sad u dids
2006-10-17 18:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get to the girl before he does!!!!
2006-10-17 18:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋