I have read a lot of stuff about people having anal (not porno stuff) just articles. But does it hurt for the first time? Is it different when a guy and a guy do it and when a guy and a girl do it? What are the positives and negatives.
2006-10-17 10:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by rusty9232 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Well you could rip the lining on the inside. I wouldn't do it. Too many risks. But what I want to know is Is it fun to have anal?
2006-10-17 11:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's the same for anyone. It should only be done with a trusted partner. The recipient needs to be relaxed, and it helps if they practice first with sex toys and their fingers. It's also much more pleasant and less messy for both partners if the recipient has an enema just before (you can buy these in small disposable plastic kits at the drug store).
The recipient should take the active position - typically on top - so that they can control the speed of entry. Use plenty of KY or other non-oil based lube. Take it slowly the first time, and yes, it will hurt a little the first few times. It will also help if they push down, like taking a dump - it sounds like the wrong thing to do, but that opens up the sphincter muscle.
ALWAYS use a condom - there are many diseases that can be transmitted this way.
2006-10-17 11:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The mechanics are the same for and two people having anal sex. Some people enjoy it, some don't, it's all a matter of preference. Some men like to have their other sex partners (man-woman) to do it to them using a strap-on and this doesn't mean the they are gay because of it.
It would usually hurt the first time and gets easier each time. But it is the sensation of tightness that a person feels that is pleasurable to both. The person receiving should be clean (using a douce) before entering into the act, the giver should take their time and not rush, and plenty of lube should be used. The taker must learn to relax or it would be painful and uncomfortable. It would be best to use finger(s) or dildo before getting into the actual person to person act in order to help relax the splinter muscles. Alway use a condom
2006-10-17 11:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know that repeated anal intercourse causes inelasticity of the sphincter and anal muscles which leaves the rectum loose and flabby. This does not improve with abstinence. Stool falls out. There is no tone to hold it in. Rectal holes can be the size of a golf ball.
That is the "negative" side of it.
2006-10-17 12:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be painful for the receiver and the giver, moreso the receiver.
There's a lot of pleasure to be had, I can only speak from the guy/girl scenario, but it leaves the lady free to pleasure herself as the man is 'busy' !! You'll either like it or not, but hey there's no harm in trying. Make sure you are clear that you have a absolute guaranteed way to stop in case you get uncomfortable, a safe word or something like that.
Oh....and use lube !!
2006-10-17 11:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Wee Eck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thicker the d!ck is that goes up your a.s.s the more it hurts and if your partner is banging you really hard then it also hurts. but after a while you get use to it and it begins to feel good. the pain should be the same for a girl or a guy who is getting it up the a.s.s specially if it is their first time.
p.s. i would think that there are more negative side effects to having anal then there are positives.
2006-10-17 12:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by tru_blu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time hurts you just have to relax and put it in slowly and lubed. If it's forced you could get some damage,but if you do a little at a time to stretch it out eventually the pain isn't that bad
2006-10-17 11:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I've heard.....the first time hurts (until you get into the groove) and then it's supposed to be amazing.
I also understand that it's the same sensation for guys & girls.
There are risks....you could tear the membrane & lining of your anus if you are to rough or there isn't enough lubrication.
If you decide to try it....play safe....use a condom.
2006-10-17 11:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Canadian Ken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's not alot of lubercant it will hurt like hell. Also the risks are huge since your anus only have a protective cell wall about one cell thick and it can cause you to strectch out to a point where you caqnt hold your feces properly and mess your self during the day. If your a guy i guess it feels tight like doing a virgin.but i wouldnt kno....im a girl
2006-10-17 11:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by kandi61689 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its not different
it could hurt depends on if youve ever used a dildo or vibrator
positives= could turn u on, better climax, feels nice
negative= bleeding, soreness, umm.....
2006-10-17 11:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by momsclown2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋