My boyfriend wants to extend his male bit, should I let him?

Question

I can't believe he is worried about his size. Everything is just fine by me in that department. I once said something about an ex boyfriends size and he has since obsessed about being big enough. Has anyone out there had it done? Did it improve things? Were there any technical difficuties as a result? I am dying here...he won't shut up about it.

Answer 1

You have damaged his male pride and as we all know that is irrepairable. There is no hope he will ever recover......

Answer 2

First of all, tell him if all you wanted was a big penis, then you wouldn't be with him, but say it in a nice way.
Let him know it's not the size that counts, but how you love him and you enjoy your love making with him, which even though your ex might have been bigger, the sex was not as good.
To try to have his penis extended is a mistake, it isn't going to make him a better lover and most methods leave a man looking like a freak of nature. Even fat injections to make it thicker most often make it look like it's bumpy and misshapen. 99 percent of men who have had any kind of enlargement done are sorry after wards and found that their sex life didn't improve, but became wost after. Let him know that you like him the way he is -

Answer 3

There are many causes to premature ejaculation and every cause requires a different treatment depending on each individual's situation and preference as well. Sometimes premature ejaculation is due to an over-sensitive glans (skin of penis head). This reduces your ejaculatory control. At other times, it could also be a matter of psychology effect like stress, fear of poor performing. A weak PC muscles (muscles located between the anus and testicles) also causes premature ejaculation. Good news is premature ejaculation can be prevented and cured and there are many treatments out there. But to start off, it's advisable to resort to some safe, natural and proven methods which cure the problem from its root cause. I was once suffered from the same problem and that brought so much stress to me and my girlfriend (now my wife). I tried many different treatments including cream, pill and gel. But really healed me was some simple proven natural techniques including exercising my PC muscles, learning to monitor and control my level of sexual arousal, using last-longer sexual positions, correct breathing methods etc. I learned the hard way, but you really dont have to. Here is the free ebook where you can get a general idea of what premature ejaculation really is, its causes and how to treat premature ejaculation: ( http://prematurejaculation.kyma.info ) The fact is, you can really cure and control premature ejaculation in a matter of weeks, you just need the right information. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

It will not work anyway, The only method is surgery and it asss like half an ich and looks ridiculous (but he will be used to that in the showers!) get used to crappy sex or get a decent man sized toy or a decent man full stop xxx

Answer 5

Have your BF read this:

(excerpt from database)
from:
http://ca.askmen.com/love/love_tip_200/232b_love_tip.html
http://www.jackinworld.com/qa/qasem.html

PC Exercises:
While Kegel exercises can help you last longer, they can also aid in increasing sperm volume. There are a host of exercises you can do to keep your penis in great shape and shoot like a champion.
(Butter's note: PC muscle exercises have proven to help reduce prostate troubles in advancing age, but I have yet to see improvements in my ejaculate's volume through this method)

Exercising your PC muscle can help you shoot further than ever before.Read How to Exercise your PC muscles at http://www.ayurvediccure.com/penis_enlargement_stretching.htm

Answer 6

Inadaqucy is the first sign of an inferiority complex.
He has very low self esteem.
Extentions isn't what he needs.
Therapy will help.

Answer 7

It depends on the method he's planning on using. Most methods are temporary at best. I think you need to compliment him on his performance in bed. Men are so sensitive about these things. Obviously he is afraid of losing you. Build his confidence. It takes lots of patience.

Answer 8

It's insane, and I would get rid of him, especially if he's even into sex while not being married. What a jerk, with his mentality.

Let me say this again: Dump him.

Answer 9

There is no way to do this, other than by an operation, which is expensive and risky. He could end up looking dreadful.

There are no pills or potions that will work.

Answer 10

He can not make it longer without physically hurting himself. They make them longer by pulling them out from their base which is not wise.

He can not make it more fat.

I presume you are adults. Persons should fall in love get married and then have sex. Doing that keeps such things like this comparing from ever being a problem.

THere are condoms that could help. There are novelty items that could help if you had a problem with his size. but you do not. HE nees a little councelling help so he does not feel this way. He has inferiority issues that goes beyond this. Each time you have sex with another person germs that were only ment to be in your family line get into the other person, and all theirs get in you. Then each time each of them has sex with other persons all the germs from your family line and theirs get spread to that other person. WE are collecting more strains of germs and microbes in our bodies by being promiscuous than is safe. MOnogamy and abstinence were practiced for ages to keep this from happening. When you have children all these germs get passsed down to your children.

They get passed down to generations for as long as earth continues and you have decendents.

Some persons beleive that ther reason we should each have just one mate who we have sex with for our lifetime is to prevent these many lines of germs frrm getting mixed together so fast.

Who knows which of these germs can get together with other germs that were never supposed to come to gether and the result is some genetic defect or new disease. WHo knows how many perosn are born with a defect casuesd by this but never noticed over the thousands of years. We should be less flagrant and more careful.

You never know if someone is having sex with someone else?

So you never know for real if you are being protected from STD's and AIDS. The only way to be sure is for everyone to not have sex except with one person for life. Sex is not supposed to be a form of recreation. IT is supposed to be a special thing that we keep for one and only one other person to show then and tell them that they are special more special thatn anyone else.
Once you lose your virginity to that you can not get it back. The only thing that might help you to know that you are the only person your partner has ever had sex with is if you and your partner have both openly and clearly always believed in monogamy and practiced abstinence before marraige. Modern lifestlyes have foolishly robbed this protection of only having those germs that were in ancestors being passed down to future generations.

Please fortgive the strong statements here. It is strongly beleived we need as a culture and society to adopt these older traditions and realize they had meaning and purpose. It may be the only way we can protect our children and future generations from devestation like is going on in places like South Africa now becasue of a much too free and unbridled sex culture.