(continuing from the question) the 2nd time was worse and so much more painful... is this normal? and is there anyway i can find out with out having to go to a doctor.... like i said, im 15... my parents really cant know... hope you can help, thanks
2006-10-17 10:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well speaking from experience...i would say the first ten times I had sex it was painful. And sometimes it takes a few times to break the hymen (your cherry) completely.
Make sure you are using lubrication and that you are comfortable having sex in the first place. Since you have become sexually active. Go to see a gynecologist or planned parenthood(parents don't have to know) and get a check up and ask all the questions you want. Educate yourself and make sure to take care of your body and emotions. And of course GET ON THE PILL AND USE CONDOMS!
2006-10-17 10:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loosing you virginty can be painful at first but will sub due over time. but truthfully you should go to a doctor to be safe and since your now sexualy active you will need birth control for your self, condoms are std helpful but not always safe for pregncy. you'll be trying new things and will get alittle more careless as all do in an intimate relationship. from personal experence, i had pain during my first times of sex. i never went to a doctor and just kept putting it off thinking it'll go away. later after my first child 3 years after i started having sex i found out i had endometriosis. which was why i was having pain during intercoarse. so i would defeinatly go to see some one. there are planned parenthoods in all areas and u can find one in ur phne book or a search online could help. they are totally confidental.
2006-10-17 10:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
second time must hurt coz sure it's have been a short time ago since u lost ur virginity u have to wait for about 9 days dont even try to but any thing in ur p u s s y even tampons... and after dis while u'll be okay .. i hope u'll get better
2006-10-17 10:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by shosho_scorp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, have you ever had a paper cut before and then recut the same area on accident? It hurts a million times worse. The first time you hurt yourself, and then you're rehurting yourself so it hurts worse. Sounds like the same concept to me.
2006-10-17 10:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ok. thats fine. some people dont bleed at all and some people bleed for the 1st few times and thats ok.
2006-10-17 10:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me (wlsn_chndlr@yahoo.com) cause i am 15 also
2006-10-18 00:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it s normal
2006-10-17 10:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by alamgeer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah
2006-10-17 10:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋