I am 26, and recently found out, that my bf of 4 years was shagging some little slapper, who has only just left school. We have since broken up, and the stupid piece of low life scum that she is, has got my e-mail address from somewhere, (probably from the bottom of the pond, where my ex hangs out) As sad as her existence is ! It seems she has nothing better to do than send childish emails from her place of work, to where I work. Is it not bad enough that she's done whats she's done, and is still getting away with interfering in my life (even though I've gone to great lengths to forget about the "slimy algea" (if yer know what I mean) and put them in the past !
Apart from grassing her up to her boss, for sending personal emails in works time (cos believe me, I've often thought of forwarding her e-mails to her boss, just to let him know whats shes been upto in the companies time. What would YOU do ?
2006-10-17 10:05:19 · 19 answers · asked by kebablamb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Telling me to get a life with a name like 'Limpet' HELLO !!
2006-10-17 10:16:25 · update #1
knock the **** outta her.
2006-10-17 10:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by delaruedebbie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi oh that girl needs a good slap. If you know where she works print off the emails she has sent you and then take them into her boss and then show him them.And just make a complaint about her she needs to grow up she has done what she wanted to do and why should she be bothering you. Or the only other way is to just go up to her and confront her and then warn her off i bet she wont expect it. Or what you can do is report her to the police for slander and get a order on her. Or tell you boss that you want to change your works email as you are being harassed. Then she will be sending emails and no one will read her pathtic comments. Before you go to see her email her back and tell her that you have forworded all the emails she sent to you to her boss and you are coming down to sort her out. And come down with the printed emails.
2006-10-17 10:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do one of two things:
1. Forward all the emails to her boss and get her into trouble, but it will not mend what has happened.
2. Be the bigger and more mature person and just move on without the the dear cheater and his little ho. You deserve better than that.
2006-10-17 10:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by cakelady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I'd want to kick the sh*t out of her, but, you will only end up in trouble for that,(unless of course, you come across her, on her own in a dark alley, then go for it) I would copy all the emails and not only send them to her boss but I would inform her that if she carries on you will press charges for harrassment and sue her for personal distress. That should quieten her down.
2006-10-17 10:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lower yourself to her way of thinking...........She clearly does not give a dam about your feelings or has any guilt about what she has done..........
I would write a letter to her boss, letting him know you will inform the police if he/she does not take appropriate action.
Other than that just ignore her, she is not worth your time or energy.........If she keeps hassling you just inform the police they take that type of thing really seriously.
I have been cheated on 3 times and it is the most degrading experience, but try and move on...............Think you have no one to answer to now
FANTASTIC GET OUT AND PARTY GIRL
2006-10-17 10:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really sounds like it would stink. i'm not here to tell you to get revenge. cause if you were to ask me thats childish but by the way you talk about her, i'd say she's childish also. the best route would be to show her boss the e-mails you have recieved but my guess is she'll show your's. also i would probably confront her and tell her just to leave you alone, that you have been going on with your own life with out them, and tell her to stay out of your life and you'll stay out of hers!.
i hope i could help..
2006-10-17 10:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lynzie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH LIMPIT UR AN ASSSSHOLE!!!
I think you should beat the fukk out of her and then him! Seek revenge! I would not normally agree with revenge but in this case, HELL YEAH! I would certainly print them off and then take them personally to her place of work so she see's you going in to see her boss... ha ha ha she will sh!t herself. I would just do that and then tell her to her face that she is a waste of space and that you no longer want anything to do with her or your ex and tell her she is welcome to her cos he is now soiled goods after being with a crab ridden whore like her! And then walk away with your head held high and if you ever see her again ensure you are smiling smugly! In hopes that she has been kicked out of her job, little slag... tell me who she is, where she lives and I will beat the fukking sh!t out of her for you - one thing I do not condone is infidelity.
2006-10-17 10:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by DikiDoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smother her with charm that will knock the I want to hurt and bully approach she has towards you. She is behaving like a bully. SHE has big problems. The local bike.....craves love and is as jealousas hell of you....yep jealous. Be dignified .......this will make her mad. Your problem has gone......hers weigh her down
2006-10-17 21:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block her emails, tell her boss and then be thankful that you're not with that idiot any more - you've wasted too much time on him already
2006-10-17 14:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out a bit man. Get another man, make your ex jealous.
2006-10-17 10:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by uk_lad_2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easy just nicely tell her that u need your space and ask her t leave u alone 4 a while and act like u don't care if she is with your ex
2006-10-17 10:11:54 · answer #11 · answered by Adrienne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋