I KNOW HOW I AM. I HAVE A LOW SELF IMAGE I GUESS. WHEN SOMEONE TRIES TO HELP ME OUT OF THIS I CAN MAKE OUT IF THEY ARE BEING HONEST OR NOT. JUST SAYING SOMETHING TO BOOST ME UP WOULDN'T HELP. I WANT TO BE CONFIDENT. CONFIDENT HERE WOULD INCLUDE EVERYTHING FROM PERSONALITY TO LOOKS. I DON'T ANT TO BE THE ONE IN ALL BUT I JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY FOR HOW I AM, WHICH MY BE I AM NOT
2006-10-17 10:02:30 · 3 answers · asked by Moli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why are you depending on someone else to make you feel good about yourself?? It all starts with you. First, you have to want. That is obvious. We all can see that. Then, you have to take action. Sitting in a rowboat and waiting for the current to move the boat doesn't work...it takes someone to 'row' it. You have to be the moving force.
Enroll into some classes that you have an interest in and can feel good about. Have you thought about doing something on a volunteer basis? Reading to the blind, visiting the hospitals and doing something there? Cancer kids?? Lots of people need good people everywhere. Don't spend so much time thinking about 'poor you'. MAKE a difference. Before long, you won't even remember feeling badly about yourself, because you will see that you have made a difference and have tremendous value---and the cool thing is--YOU DO!
2006-10-17 10:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have recently read a book about this. I obviously dont know your age, so this book may not interest you. It is manufactured by the American Girl company, and the title is something like, THE TRUE YOU. It sounds childish, but helps a TON!
2006-10-17 10:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by harvalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only person who can make u happy is ur self!!! no one can do it for u!!!! dont put ur self down i think u might need some professoinal help!!! well i hope everything goes good with u and dont let no one get u down!!
2006-10-17 10:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋