We fooled around about 6-8 days ago, although there was no peneteration involved. Now she's having some spotting and some cramps in her abdomen that she noticed on Sunday (2 day ago). She's told me that she's never experienced this before and that she was on day 13 or 14 or in the middle of her cycle when the possible conception could have occured. From my research, it's too early to have a pregnancy test done. Does this mean that she can be pregnant?
My gf is not on any form of birth control or any medication that I'm aware of. Also this may have occured when the pre ejaculate was transfered to the vagina via her hands or mine through groping or fingering when we were playing with each others area or maybe some other way. I did not ejaculate but there were times when the pre-ejaculate was present when we fooled around.
She said she had her period yesterday and that it was as heavy as it normally is.
We're both young and very scared. Please help.
2006-10-17 09:44:32 · 16 answers · asked by Questioner 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
FYI: There was no penetration involving our genitals but there was times I fingered her while we played with each others area.
2006-10-17 09:45:01 · update #1
With all this said, is there a possibility that she could be pregant, eventhough she had her period yesterday?
2006-10-17 09:46:06 · update #2
no
2006-10-17 09:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kim2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she would have any pregnancy symptoms if she were only 6 - 8 days pregnant. Remember how scared you are right now, especially the next time you want to "fool around." You sound young so just hang out with your girlfriend, and save the sexual play until you are old enough and also responsible enough to use protection.
2006-10-17 09:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries! Spotting is very normal afterwards. She probably got a tissue torn. Although its possible that pregnant women have their periods, this is not your case. She would not have syptoms so early. And if your young, most likely her peiods are not that regular yet. It will vary. Just be more careful next time.
2006-10-17 09:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was no penetration what are you worried about! You can't get pregnant unless penetration occurs. Tell your girlfriend that maybe she needs to see a doctor and get on birth control pills or some kind of contraceptive so you won't be having this conversation later on and it would be too late.
2006-10-17 09:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tammie C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's not pregnant. She had her period, and you can't get pregant while on a period. Next time stop fooling around and watch a movie or something.
2006-10-17 10:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by roleypoley1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive recently encountered the same problem, recently i was fingerbanging my girl and she started to bleed all over my hand, i thought she had her period so i was disgusted as usual. Later that nite i found out she was pregnant, i thought girls couldnt get pregnant while they were in heat but apparently i was wrong. Now i have to figure out how the hell iam going to break up with her. If anyone has any ideas please let me know..thanks
2006-10-17 09:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by the latino lover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to find out is to take a test. Although they are not 100% correct, they are good for reassurance.
2006-10-17 10:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very unlikely that pre was transferred through your hands or anything to get her pregnant. POSSIBLE.. but VERY unlikely.. especially if she's had her period.
lol.. i remember when i was like 14, (i'm old and married now.. tee hee) my bf and i were messing around, and i sucked him off, and he DID ejaculate, then we kissed, and he went down on me... i missed my period and i was afraid that by some horrible luck some lil spermie guys had made there way from my mouth to his, and then to my egg supply... but.. it didn't. i talked to a nurse friend of mine, and she just laughed and said i was too young to be doing that anyways..
hey, be careful.. messing around/sex is fun... and its good.. but be careful.. you didn't mention how old you were, and i'm not one to judge how young is too young, but just be careful.
good luck
2006-10-17 09:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by MnKLmT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she started her period then odds are she is not pg... if you are still worried about it buy a test in about 2 wks and test... Next time be very careful and wear a condom even though you are just fooling around.
2006-10-17 09:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by DO IT! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6-8 days isn't long enough to find out if she's pregnant. If she's had a period, then she isn't pregnant.
2006-10-17 09:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by Kimberley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her period started yesterday, then she isn't pregnant. From now on, stop touching each other.
2006-10-17 09:47:04 · answer #11 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋