Whats wrong with being a virgin?

Question

Whats wrong with still having the big V? im not a virgin because i cant get laid but because i choose to be! i dont want the scares of pregnancy! i dont want to get and STD! so whats wrong with waiting until you're married and in love?

Answer 1

What idiots have been telling you it's wrong? Be true to yourself. Only you can decide when is the right time for you to have sex. It's your body -- don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do.

Answer 2

OK, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. It's just that you do not seem as outgoing as other people. You have no idea what kind of accomplishment it is to stay a virgin until marriage. Those are serious bragging rights and it can really strengthen your relationship when you are in true love or married. Pregnancy can be a very scary thing, but it is rare when you use stuff like the pill, and condoms in a combo.
DO NOT EVER, EVER feel pressured into having sex, YOU WILL REGRET IT, GUARANTEED! If you REALLY want to do it, and he does too, you will enjoy it. If you have certain doubts about it, DO NOT be afraid to say no, he may pressure you, saying things like, "Come on, it will be great, i promise". Just keep saying no. It wont reck your relationship, unless he is only in it for the sex, and you don't deserve that, get a new guy. Just tell him you aren't ready for sex quite yet. He should understand.
As for your STD problems, there are many vaccines that you can get to keep you from getting these diseases. And that, combined with a condom can really decrease your chances of getting an std.
Remember, the choice is up to you.
Hope this helps!

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with waiting until you are married and in love. What not having sex does to a relationship is that you can see clearly how well a partner suits you without an orgasmic haze clouding your judgement. Howmany of us have made the wrong decicisions in love and marriage just because the sex was good. Good sex will hide a miriad of flaws in a potential partner.

Now the guys you date are at an age that is akin to being in heat. And being a virgin makes you a hot commodity. Do not trade it in just because you get pressured. Virginity is something that you can give to someone very special. and you can give it only once, Why not wait until you are in love and married.

Answer 4

Nothing is wrong with being a virgin right now. I'm right there with you I choose to still have my innocence. It to scares me that peopel get pregnant and act like its alright but it isn't if you can't support yourself and the kid. And the thing with the STD's. People are sleeping around so much and are transferring diseases that its really sad by the time the teenage generation turns 25-30, only less than half of them will have something they caon't get rid of so, NOTHING IS WRONG WITH STILL BEING A VIRGIN.

Answer 5

There is definitely nothing wrong with being a virgin. I'm glad that you are because there's too many sluts these days. Being a guy, I feel good that I'm still a virgin unlike most of the guys who care about "Getting Laid". I find it utterly obnoxious.

Answer 6

There is nothing wrong with it. There are men out there who are ok with that. I'm in your same arena. But there are a lot of folks out there who feel the need to test the goods before they purchase them? Which doesn't really make much sense to me. Sex is learned and experimental so I don't see why you can't just practice to make it better, unless your man is impotent or something. I doubt that everyone knew all the right tricks their first time. So the old "You wouldn't buy a car before you test drove it" theory is insufficient. Basically some people just want their sexual needs met right now and it better be RIGHT now.

Answer 7

Well nothing is wrong with being a virgin, the question you should ask yourself is after experiencing sex for the first time with your mate are you going to really sexually active or not. ( that can cause problem emotionally and cal lead to other things.. That people tend not to think about.. and what if your mate isnt.. So really experience is the best teacher..

Answer 8

Nothing is wrong with it. In fact, I think everything's right with it. I know with the world around us it seems as though people are just "screwing around" and it seems cool. But you're absolutely right. It is not worth risking and there are a lot more people with the same attitude than you think. A lot of people have regrets because they didn't wait and I hope that you won't have any because I think you're doing good. I hope I don't sound corny, but it's the truth.

Answer 9

Don't worry about it so much. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Do what you want to, don't let others force you into making a decision that you don't want to make (like loseing your virginity). There is absolutley nothing wrong with waiting until your married to loose loose it. Just relax.

Answer 10

Nothing at all! And anybody who tells you different needs to go eat a big pile of ****. I think it is cool that you value your V so much and you want to lose it for the right reason. Well, thats actually the way it is supposed to be and there should be more like you. I wish I would have lost mine to my husband but by the time I had met him that ship had sailed. Power to you!

Answer 11

Nothings wrong with it, Im a virgin because I want to wait till marriage...Call me old fashioned. People only think its wrong because society sells sex and wants you to believe being a virgin is wrong. Power to you!