I'm 23 and lost my virginity at 18 and I've been shown a whole new side of love-making and I like it. I no longer have sex where I'm pretty much not involved, just laying there. I want to experience more but I'm not sure about the toys
2006-10-17 09:36:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
look at it as a chance to learn more about yourself. Toys are nice and fun with or without someone else. Just make sure that no one get hurt. If you are not comfortable about something please make sure that the 2 of you talk about it.
2006-10-17 09:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by naute_girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Toys and other sexual paraphernalia can add a bit of adventure and make exploration exciting to an already healthy and open relationship, as long as it doesn't become the focal point of the sexual relationship. Always remember that the best aphrodisiac is love......so the other things should not be a necessary alternative, but an added fun-factor.
Have fun!
2006-10-17 09:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel lucky you have found someone with some imagination to be with! Relax and enjoy...if you really don't like something say so and try something else. There is definitely a place for fun in the bedroom.
2006-10-17 10:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toys can be fun . You may enjoy the experience.
2006-10-17 09:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOu got married at 23!??!?! I feel bad for you, good luck on not becoming the mayority of america ( divorced people )
2006-10-17 09:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I'm older and not sure about toys.
Your with your soulmate and it should be alright to experiment.
Start out slow and if at anytime it doesn't feel right, stop.
At least you tried it.
It's not everyones thing.
Explain this to your loved one and if he loves you he will listen to you.
2006-10-17 09:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Joanne C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toys are fun! That's why they are called toys. he he. Seriously, just take it at your own pace. Trust me toys are fun and can enhance your sexual experience.
2006-10-17 09:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You'll never know until you try... Give it a whirl and see if toys are to your liking...
2006-10-17 09:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toys can be fun, expore live and enjoy. If you don't like it, remember you can always say no.
Sex should be fun, not a chore.
2006-10-17 09:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get out of this and try to go back to your previous state of innocence. And get rid of that sicko so-called "fiance." He deserves a beating and I wish we would revert to the days when male family members would handle that.
2006-10-17 09:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋