My mum has got a friend and her son is 16 . I am a little younger then that . Anyway I have known him forever and during the summer holiday i kinda of fell in love ith him well thought i did anyway !! t ended up being just friendship !! But before I knew that i sent him a tet saying i loved him and that i knew he didn't like me etc ... being very passionate !! he answered back saying that he only liked me as a friends etc ...
I don't care about that and i have now got another boyfriend !!! So that's not the problem !!
The problem is he is coming over with his mum and step dad during halfterm !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am scared he tells any of my family !!!!!!!!!! or his family !!! And i am going to be so embarrassed when i see him . I no longer like him at all !! But what should i say when he asks me about why i liked him or details of that event ! Do you think he will say anything ! He promised no to tell anyone ! but what if he did !! help !!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 09:24:58 · 24 answers · asked by La parisienne ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is the kind of person that does everything to embarrass anyone !! Goodness knows why i liked him!! But how should I act around him to show him that i don't care ?
2006-10-17 09:33:38 · update #1
I can't tell him I have a boyfriend as he will probably rell my parents and they can't find that out either !! My parents are the kind that have always taken the mickey out of me when i like someone !!! you know what i mean ?
2006-10-17 09:39:47 · update #2
If you feel like it would make you feel more at ease to talk to him about it then I suggest you just let him know that your feelings of friendship for him were mixed up and that since then you have straightened out your emotions and love him - as a friend!
Other then that you don't need to tell him anything. :)
2006-10-17 09:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all relax!!!! What happened can't be as embarrassing as when I decided I was in love with the boy next door! Not only did I pledge my eternal love for the poor lad but i wrote pages and pages of cringe worthy poems telling him so. Don't feel too sorry for him tho the little **** read them out to my whole class! Now that was 10 years ago and unfortunately for me the lad still lives next door and my whole family STILL ribs me about it. The best way to get over these feelings of embarrassment is to get a sense of humour about it!
2006-10-17 09:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by littlebabygem 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not say anything - just ignore it dont mention it at all. If he brings it up just say, oh that, i was over that a long time ago and leave it at that. If he brings it up over and over just say ' why the big issue with it, why are you still thinking about that' If he STILL brings it up say ' god you must be so sad if that is all you can think about - have you never got any female attention before' and he should be embarrassed himself.
Dont worry hun, men are idiots
2006-10-17 09:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by trixieb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple solution-the first opprtunity you have to catch him alone you say that you are a little embarassed about what you said to him the klast time you saw him and then you slip into the conversation that you now have someone in your life that you like a lot.
Personally, I doubt that he will say anything to your family about what you said to him. he may well have found the situation so awkward that he would not want to bring it up again.
Good luck to you!
2006-10-17 09:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Boler 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would text him again before he comes,and say you had a bit of a crush on him but you have a boyfriend now and are over it.
Tell him your embarrassed to see him,in case his family know,Im sure he will reassure you,and its all settled before you see him.
If you can get him on his own have a bit of a laugh about it,say "I bet youve had a crush on people like i did with you",and stop worrying hun x
2006-10-17 09:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Embarrassment is over alot quicker then the picking, If he asks you about it then tell him that you did have a crush but now you found someone else. Good luck.
2006-10-17 09:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably equally embarrassed as what to say but I;m sure if you just start talking about things like pop movies sport etc the normal conversations you have you will both not mention it and get back to being good friends.
2006-10-17 09:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think u should say something to him when he first comes into your house. tell him what you said before about how you feel about him, was a spur of the moment thing,, you where confused and got your emotions mixed up. then tell him and go on and on about how much you like your new boyfriend.. so he knows you mean what you say,, but not tooo much ha ha.. good luck
2006-10-17 09:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well young girl you told him that's OK
you are going to fall for a lot of guys for the next few years enjoy
you don't have to not like him because he was not forthcoming with affection after you told him.
some lads like to be in the driving seat and are confused to say the least when a girl opens up to them.
he might not of been able to deal with what you said?
any way you have a ball no regrets ( girl)
2006-10-17 09:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by brioduinn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry.
What's in the past is in the past.
If you two get a chance to talk, tell him that you have a new boyfriend and that you would like to still have him as a friend.
When you this age boyfriends change like the weather.
Have fun.
2006-10-17 09:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Joanne C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋