It is normal for me to worry not a waste of time!?

Question

asked a question before about my baby moving a lot and somebody else posted another question about it because of an answer I got that I didnt like. I really appreciate that some of you understand and give me good advises. I asked the question ONCE so I dont know why some people say i keep asking the same thing, I asked my dr about it but wanted the opinion of moms who experienced the same. This is my first pregnancy and I dont think its a problem or waste of time that I worry about it, Im human and its my baby Im worrying about, Im not just sitting around thinking about it either it is very exciting to me feel my baby move but yet I do think its normal AND NOT A WASTE OF TIME to have worries. there are lots of good people with good advises and know how a first time pregnancy be so I will keep asking questions and Thanks Melyssa and those of you that always help me http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiPDl.vJKRi21HrTmexTkw_zy6IX?qid=20061017101453AAdqkTH

Im not here to fight with anyone or be rude just wanted to be clear since somebody said Im doing things Im not actually doing, I reposted this question now because the last one didnt post

Answer 1

It is good for you to worry about your pregnancies. doesn't matter if you are a 1st time mom or 5th! every pregnancy is different and each one has a different affect on you. It really irritates me when I see those women who answer "Duh" and "stop asking stupid questions" to some one who is going through the worry some and sometimes quite frighting first pregnancy. Ignore those idiots and ask away! Mom's like us will be here to give you real answers.

Answer 2

It is absolutely normal and natural to worry as a first time mom; actually anytime you're going to be a mom you are going to be concerned and have questions or worries. Whenever you are experiencing something that you have no experience with, absolutely a thousand changes going on in your mind, with your body, at your home...of course, you're going to worry or have questions. Ask away...I thought that was what we're here for...at least I know I am. I like the idea of maybe being able to calm someone else's fears or concerns or just help by trying to answer them in relation to my experience. Maybe it can help them just to realize they are not alone. Remember, the only dumb question is the one you don't ask and you're only wasting time if you're worrying about worrying!

Answer 3

I think its fine to worry and stuff, just don't let it consume you. This is a new experience, and you have nothing to compare it too, so naturally you are going to wonder about different things, I did. My advice to you is try not to take what other say to heart and let it bother you, just let it roll off your back. You have enough things to worry about with having a new baby on the way, than other peoples comments on this site. Just let it roll off your back, and find strength in the knowledge that you are doing whats best for your baby, and asking questions and educating yourself about pregnancy will just make you stronger, and a better mother. Good luck and remember, who cares what others think, Its your life, your decisions.

Answer 4

Good for you! When we are FIRST time moms...note the word...FIRST!! To those people that gave you a hard time..I say DUH!! Like THEY wouldn't ask about stuff they know NOTHING about?? Anyway, you ask all you want. I was a first time mom and I LOVE talking about it. If it helps others - so be it! Every person is different, but some answers are general. Ask away, girlfriend and enjoy that special present from God!!!!

Answer 5

I'm in the middle of my first pregnancy and a worrywart too. I think it's absolutely normal and a good thing to worry - it shows that we care about our babies!!!!

Answer 6

its normal to worry about everything with a first pregnancy. enjoy it and try to relax