If you have a crush on someone, and it's obvious they have a crush on you too, but you two are just two nervous to say "hi" to each other, what suggestions would you give for starting?
2006-10-17 09:15:31 · 8 answers · asked by boobooshurt 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The early bird gets the worm! Go for it! Just dig deep for the strength and confidence to make a move--if you don't, someone else may. If you do, you could begin a great relationship, so why wait?
2006-10-17 09:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by pocket68rocket 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The old fashioned card works really well. They are cute and cheap at Walmart, just put a note that has your name and number at the left side bottom- on the right side- Can we have coffee this weekend?
Do something in common that is not threatening.
I always started with coffee-like Starbucks (or local soda shoppe) in the middle of the day on the weekend.
If is works well then take them to late lunch-super casual, a buffet, so that you can see what they like to eat. [most people will get several of their favorites if available]
Get a movie listing and bring it with you, so if things go real well, you may hit the movies. Or just talk about it for next weekend.
{remember IF you invite them-have the money to pay for them}
2006-10-17 16:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sally C,
Stop moving your body away. A lot of times I found that I was too shy to stop walking away. Put both feet on the ground and have a nice thing to say to the person ready.
2006-10-17 17:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I am the shyest person on the planet, but if I knew someone liked me and I liked them, then that should kind of remove the biggest barrier to me telling them. But okay thats me...
Okay if it REALLY is that kind of situation and youre just not going to be able to talk in person, then try written means.
2006-10-17 16:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Will E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make small talk you know guys start up yhe conversacion about them they be chattting away very fast like for instance bump into him and then say sorry by the way are you hotttt because that makes this mre easy anyway the loved to be complimented say hes smart you like his dominance aka youre actually saying penis but who cares
you getting his attention if he is really smart say----have you read flowers of evil yet - listens to what he has to say judge him by that best of luck mmmmmwah .sue
2006-10-17 16:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by susie p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try leaving them a note and say you are an admirer. You don't have to say who you are right away. Play with it and have fun!
2006-10-17 16:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Braves will get the prize...
If you dont dare to talk.. then someone else will....
Dont worry.. just smile... thats a good start....
Then try leaving a note with a "Hi, my name is...."
anyway... good luck!!!!
2006-10-17 17:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sagitarius CR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open mouth, and say "Hi"
2006-10-17 16:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋