My boyfriend broke up with me today. he was saying that we were getting close and he doesn't like getting close to people even though he was the one who was getting close to me. He gave me the whole it's not you it's me thing. He said that he wanted to forget it happened and be friends and go back to hte way things were. Like that can happen. I have to talk to him otmmorow and I'll be crying the whole time. Please help me.
2006-10-17 09:15:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hey be strong
it is him, he doesnt deserve u if wut u said was rite
when u talk to him just say that u dont need him anymore
2006-10-17 09:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by u no it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ur ex got lucky and said the right thing. The only thing that will bring you understanding and possibly bring you two back to the level you want is being friends again. Isn't that how you fell in love. Suck it up and be strong cause if you're not you didn't care. Think of this as a stepping stone to your life.
Remember: Life is complicated so we don't get bored.
Peace
2006-10-17 16:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Francis Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what's going on inside some guy's heads? Better to try to stay cool, act like you're okay, and ask your friends for support. Maybe allow yourself a hot bath and some ice cream. There are other fish in the sea, and you don't have time for one who doesn't know what he wants.
2006-10-17 16:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....your right it could never go back to the way it was. stay strong when you see him tomorrow, try hard not to cry , let him think that's its no big deal to you and you will live without him, as far as staying friends try to avoid him until your feelings ease up. tell him " I'LL SEE YOU AROUND" >>> good luck you will find another guy who will want to have a relationship with you !
2006-10-17 16:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by MissMonk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daniella, you are still young and you'll probably have many more boyfriends and probably other heartaches. Enjoy your teen years, these are the best years of your life. So, lift your head up, and move on! Most importantly enjoy life!
2006-10-17 16:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I recall your question a few days ago with the same title. You need to get your act together. He has made his position clear.
2006-10-17 16:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him likw u feel!! but this guy sounds like sum1 who wouldnt make a good bf anyway b/c the whole point of goingout w/ sum1 is to get close.....duh!!
2006-10-17 17:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do something with ur friends to get it off ur mind go to the movies or something, and why do u have 2 talk 2 him tomorrow?
2006-10-17 17:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, stay strong. go watch a movie and get it off your mind for a while. sorryy
2006-10-17 16:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him im sorry it didnt work out but its okay i have another boyfriend already.
2006-10-17 16:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by kaziah h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋