ive been having a huge issuie on the question of "love" lately i've been having bad luck. my recent ex bf basically cheated on me with 2 different girls, and now hes going out with this one girl from pennsylvania, cuz he was visiting to see his mom. stupid? i know, he lives here in cali, and she lives all the way there, so they are currently having a long distance relationship. right now hes in military skool out in san diego, and there still together, but i dont understand how people fall in and out of love so fast. he was like litterally obssessed with me and he wud have done anything for me, and he promised me so much, and i truely did think that we wud be together forever, i thot he was the one. but now it all seems like he was fake. and i think hes done it to other gf's in the past. i think he will do it to his new gf, but im not too sure since he's willing to be with her when she lives all the way in pennsylvania,so im a little confuzed, based on his decisions help me!
2006-10-17 09:01:45 · 7 answers · asked by Tina C 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
First of all, kiss this one goodbye and good riddance - he's a cheater, he won't change, and you're better off without him. Some men will say anything to get 'satisfaction' - they may even mean it at the time! They are, as we say here in the UK: 'guided by their loins'. However, all is not lost - there are really nice guys out there who know the meaning and the importance of fidelity - I hope you meet one soon.
2006-10-17 09:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by mad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually once a cheater always a cheater is pretty true, but there are the few diamonds in the rough who actually do change - it's rare though.
Your ex is just not in a state in his life where he wants to settle down. However he should have just broken up with you before having his flings - but a lot of folks want to have their cake and eat it too, which is why they cheat.
Take it as a lesson learned, and be thankful the relationship ended now before any marriage or children became a part of the deception.
It is unfortunate we have to enter into relationships with such a guarded heart, but it's the safest way to avoid heartache. I would have enjoyed my youth much more if I had avoided relationships altogether and just had fun with friends exclusively. If a relationship happens along the way, great, but never get into it with ideas of forever, just ideas of "at the moment", because there's a 99% chance that is all it will be.
You'll be okay. Just spend you efforts and emotions on enjoying friends and family, and don't waste any more of them on what could have or would have been.
2006-10-17 09:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by GirlUdontKnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok - This is a very grey area, lets talk about your recent ex. Yes I do think he will keep cheating. And as his new girlfriend lives in Pennsylvania - well he's pretty safe to cheat as much as he likes.
He has a long distance relationship - and is not having to explain himself all the time. YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM. He wears his heart on his p k !! Don't loose your faith in all men just because of this jerk !
2006-10-17 09:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 10:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are very young, you will go through numerous relationships. When you mature you will know just what you want in a relationship. Just make sure you choose a mate who has the same maturity and goals.
2006-10-17 09:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 12
Don't worry about it.
What you should worry about is learning to spell correctly.
2006-10-17 09:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater. definetly.
2006-10-17 09:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋