Here is what happened, I was in love with this amazing guy,we dated once but it didn't work out because he thought my parents hated him.... Second time we dated for a year or so, everything was going great, but on his B-day i was grounded and i couldn't spend the day with him. So he decided to come see me, but he never does. Which makes me think he most me to busy to call or whatever.... I waited for him to call me, i called him a few time but no call back. Few days later I go to his house and I find he is pissed at me. So I ask him why and he say he went by my house and didn't see my car. Which got me all confused because I was at my house the whole entire day and night. He said I was lying and broke up with me. what should I do
2006-10-17 08:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It seems to me that he got upset of a very small thing and for some reason doesn't accept your account of what happened. Trust has to be the basis for every relationship, even friendship. Without trust, these kinds of issues pop up over and over.
Try talking to him and asking why he doesn't believe you. If he sticks to his reason, then maybe he was looking for a way out. I know that isn't what you want to hear, but if a guy isn't willing to listen to reason, he is using that as an excuse. The only thing that will help you get over him is time. Stay busy, spend time with friends and it will get easier. Good Luck.
2006-10-17 08:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, sorry to be so straight forward to answer your question. This is what I think about your guy, he is so childish, in the way that he said he didn't see your car, is he looking for you or looking for your car? Since he is looking for you, he is suppose to call you or at least accept your call. This is a very lame excuse by saying that you're not at home and he wants to break up with you. As a boyfriend, he should understand why you can't spend the day with him on his birthday, I believe that you're pretty sad about this as well, right? This guy tend more to self-assuming rather than take a look at the reality he is facing. Did your parents really hate him? or he's only self-assuming that? He really need to grow up. No need to do anything with him, let's see what he will do to you. If he apologize, you forgive him. If he's not, let it be. Find a new guy! I am sure it will be very easy for you! Good luck!
2006-10-18 09:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lynda Theresia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl You really need to open your eyes because as the saying goes love is blind and it will defiantly take over your mind. It's obivous that he didn't want to be with you any more and he was looking for an excuse to break up with you. I can almost bet that he has another girl friend already, trust me it has happened to me before. It will be really hard for you to get over him, but believe me you will get over him. It will take some time though. Time will make you stronger and he will no longer be on your mind. It took me a while to get over my first love and we were together for 4 years I had been with him since I was 14 years old so you can imagine how tough it was to let him go. You just need time to your self basically it's time to focus on you and what you are trying to do with your life, school, work and so on. Focus on these things and you will find that slowly, but surely you will stop thinking about him. Go out with some friends and meet new people there is plenty of guys out there for you im sure you are a beautiful person weather it's inside , out or both. The lonnger you go with out seeing him it will be like out of sight out of mind. The more he will become just a faint memory.
2006-10-17 16:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by black beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just fine another man.. you know what, I tell you that love is supposed to be enough.. if he loves you enough, he will run after you and never let you go.. it's just because you grounded, then he left you.. whatever the reason he told you, he's not worthed.. he can call you first if he really needs you.
My suggestion is that always look for a guy, who loves you more than you love him. Because in terms of love, as the time passes by, guys love girls less and less while girls love more and more..
2006-10-17 15:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by hoitje 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am in love with this amazing girl some how we dated once well my story is about the same as yours just that i am studying aboard so she found a new boyfriend am i worse then you. well i good way i get this over with is don"t think too much this guy is just on periods is he having stress? well i think you should let him be for a couple of days so that he would cool down if he does not find yourself a better partner
2006-10-17 15:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by bryanyong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it... if he's so quick to judge do you really want to be in LOVE with this 'one'? I know it's tough to swallow but time heals all wounds and if he's accusing you of lying when you truly were not ... why live with that? it will only spiral into more riff's.... cut your loses, hang with your gfriends and have fun ... another will come along when you least expect it! ps: if he calls you hang up!
2006-10-17 15:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by thenakats 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Young love... how I miss it. Don't worry. If he is THE ONE, he'll be back. If not, he was just a practice round for your heart. Just keep yourself open to future possibilities... Mr. Right might be looking for you right now
2006-10-17 15:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by baby_girl_8881 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your old enough to get grounded, then you are not old enough to be in love, and have found " the one" Im sorry but dont get your heart tied down yet- you dont need the hassle
2006-10-17 15:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no "the one"
2006-10-17 15:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by xwasanasss 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋