ok. so i am dating this guy. and he loves me so much. but i don't feel the same about him. i love someone else. but i don't want to hurt the guy i'm dating. plus if i break up with my boyfriend a lot of people will get mad at me if i get with the guy i love. i don't know what to do. what do you think?
2006-10-17 08:39:03 · 9 answers · asked by Amy D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to be honest. The sooner the better. Truth has a way of always making its way out, but the longer you delay it the more it'll hurt in the end. If you're not truthful about something as important as this you can end up w/anxiety, sleeplessness, illness: misery.
So hurt him now, and don't worry about what others think. It'll hurt him less if you get it over with now rather than letting it fester and having him find out after he's even more involved with you.
2006-10-17 09:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Babyface 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with "this guy". It's not fair to him. Get with the guy you love and don't worry about how mad anyone else will be. In the end you & God are the only ones you'll have to answer to.
2006-10-17 08:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by valerie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right for you - not anyone else.
Your man may be hurt but he will get over it and so what if a lot of people get mad - it is your life not theirs - would they let you tell them how to run their lives?
2006-10-17 08:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only one life to do things right. You need to end your relationship if your not in love. He will get hurt more in the long run if you stay.
2006-10-17 08:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like "were not right 4 each other" and get with the other guy ,, if the "people" care about you they would want was best 4 u
2006-10-17 08:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by awesumm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who gives a **** what other people think. Do what makes you happy. Don't be miserable, not to mention you current bf will be happy you told him that way you and he won't waste anymore time with each other.
2006-10-17 09:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people believe just because no one else knows where they live (over the internet) they can say whatever they like,which is really sad :( most of them are about 10 ha
2016-05-22 11:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of unanswered questions. Life is also full of tough choices.
Make you decision and live with it.
There's your answer.
2006-10-17 08:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad
2006-10-17 08:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋